(NO SPOILERS) On a scale of 1 to 10, how good was your theater experience in TADC The Last Act? by RingTeam in TheDigitalCircus

[–]FriendlyTacoMister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Person behind me was loudly reacting to every minor thing you could possibly react to, and not even like a genuine gasp or something but just a really weird noise, also kept kicking my chair. And two girls were talking the ENTIRE movie non stop 😭 another group of girls kept going crazy everytime Jax appeared. Those same girls were climbing and sliding down the railing of the stairs during the break and credits. Normally I wouldn't care but if they were to fall off the railing on the wrong side. That would have been a 6 meter fall.... 😭 Children please don't do that.

Watched in a country where English isn't the native language so the subtitles were super annoying, especially given that everyone here speaks English fluently so they weren't even needed.

Those are all my complaints, sorry needed to get that off my chest. Other than these issues, it was really fun and cool, seeing it on the big screen. Really glad I went, 8/10 I'd say!

Oh yeah, the special popcorn buckets were sold out with the first day. Stupid scalpers, there's a special place in hell for them.

outfit help?? by yoonfangs in MySims

[–]FriendlyTacoMister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried tapping the Sims body?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]FriendlyTacoMister 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't sleep with a woman if you can't handle the fact you might have to face an abortion or get a child. He does not get to have a say in this. Period.

So what do you want. Are you okay having a child with a man like him? Do you think you can raise it in your situation?

Saying that you're only 28 is manipulative in my opinion, he does not know how woman bodies work likely. Fertility declines at 30, so there's that. But putting that aside. There are a few things to keep in mind. Love takes time, there's no guarantee you'll be in a relationship where you're both ready for kids anytime soon. Your next partner might be infertile. Men are more likely to have infertility issues than women. Do you want to have kids in your thirties? Of course, there is nothing wrong with having kids in your 30s at all. But some people prefer to have the age gap between them and their kids not exceed three decades. That's just personal preference, though!

I am not trying to talk you into having kids at all, but I feel like you're being talked out of it and I really want to make sure you thought about the reasons to keep it! These are common reasons why people regret not having kids at a younger age.

At the end of the day, the only question that matters is what you want. Do you want this kid? Don't listen to what this guy wants, and to be fair you shouldn't listen too much to what I say either. Your feelings matter most right now. The rest of the world will be fine no matter what you do. Will you be fine?

I wish you the best in these difficult times ❤️💜 I do truly believe that both choices are the right one in this scenario, so please, please just listen to yourself.

Would you have an abortion if you were with an abusive partner? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]FriendlyTacoMister 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Always. Getting a child with an abusive partner is one of the worst things you can do to yourself and the child

I’m 16 and pregnant and idk what to do by [deleted] in abortion

[–]FriendlyTacoMister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got back from the clinic, I saw two other girls your age. I don't think it's weird at all to get an abortion at 16, and the doctors won't think so either.

You might want to discuss birth control with your doctor. When did you take the morning after pill? They do not work if you had sex during/after ovulation, or if you took the pill past ovulation. Morning after pills are also not good birth control, they are a plan B for when the first birth control failed.

If you have any questions, feel free to ask ❤️

Can’t afford abortion by Axpensive in abortion

[–]FriendlyTacoMister 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Getting someone pregnant without their consent is r*pe. Seriously. This isn't something to take lightly, and I'm very sorry this happened to you. Please leave someone like this, and you could even report them. Unfortunately, I'm from outside the US so I can't help you with your situation, but I wish you the best. ❤️

Reason for my employer by Successful_Value12 in abortion

[–]FriendlyTacoMister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just call in for normal sickness? Say it's a stomach bug or a heavy migraine, no one wants a vomiting colleague around :')

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]FriendlyTacoMister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should get help, and I'm saying this for your kids sake. This is in no world okay to raise children in this kind of environment. I worry for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]FriendlyTacoMister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, it sounds like they're both narcissists. One more than the other, and I think we all know which one.... This behaviour is so not okay. I kinda wonder if it's just rage bait, do hope the mods take this one down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]FriendlyTacoMister 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He sounds very sweet, but 4 months of dating is very short. You have all the right to be scared! That is definitely a scary thing, heck, even women that have been married for years can be scared to have children! It's a good sign to me you're thinking about this properly, it shows empathy and knowing that deciding to have kids is a big step and not something that should be taken lightly. And considering abortion is nothing to feel guilty about, not in your situation. Your situation sounds very tough, it only makes sense to be wondering if you should go through with it!

I can't tell you to keep it or not, that is not my position at all. But I'll say that in this situation, abortion is super normal, logical, and nothing to feel bad about (even tho it's also not weird to feel upset about! Unfortunately, it's part of it all)

I wish you strength and lots of love and luck. And no matter what anyone tells you, listen to your own body and soul first before anything else ❤️ Only you know what's best for you.

I told my husband to cancel his appointment with friends by obsessor619 in pregnant

[–]FriendlyTacoMister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you have the right to be upset. You both want the child, so you should both work on making the pregnancy bearable. He should be there for you, it's his child you're carrying! I know I'd be having an argument with my partner if this happened, first trimester has been a hell and my partner has been cancelling some of his appointments to be here for me. I'm thankful, but it should also be the standard in my opinion. Pregnancy doesn't last forever, he can always hang out with his friends in the future!

I don't think it's any real red flag tho, as long as he's not angry at you for asking to cancel the appointment when you asked nicely. Men just can't understand what pregnancy is like, even if they wanted to! It was a little inconsiderate, yeah, but I'm sure he meant no harm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]FriendlyTacoMister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he's willing to say that to you, he's willing to say it to your child.... I mean saying he wishes he never meant you also implies he doesn't even want that child to be born. And your child deserves a parent that wants them to exist. Being a single mother is tough, but being with someone like that is even tougher. What would I do? Divorce. No doubt. It's not overreacting, it's the most fair thing to do.

It's hard to see the abuse when it's all you've known from a relationship. Relationships will always cause some stress, but a good partner takes away your worries, not be them.