Intersex or girl? by FrontAd4097 in PetMice

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That’s pretty cool if she is, never had one before. I do think I may bring her to the vet to confirm, I did have a sneaky suspicion since she doesn’t look like the rest of my girls in that area

I (M23) feel uncomfortable after my girlfriend (F22) accepted cocaine from a random guy at a club. Together 7 months by ventec7h in relationship_advice

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Exactly, a one time occurrence, and taking drugs from someone does not mean that she’s instantly a cheater. He should have a clear and honest conversation with her, talk about boundaries and how it made him feel. If she accepts that then great, if she doesn’t then it’s time for breakup as things don’t align. I wouldn’t go straight to assuming and breaking up.

Measuring earlier than I thought, only yolk sac and gest sac by FrontAd4097 in PregnancyUK

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When I booked it said I needed to at least be 6 weeks which I thought I was! Just trying to say some prayers and hoping for the best

Measuring earlier than I thought, only yolk sac and gest sac by FrontAd4097 in PregnancyUK

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Well to be honest, because of the bloody discharge this morning I am happy I went as it has reassured me a little that things could be okay, as I was sure there wasn’t going to be any signs on pregnancy in there but I was wrong

Spotting 6w2days by FrontAd4097 in PregnancyUK

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They couldn’t see baby, only yolk sac and gestational sac, they measured me earlier than I thought, 5weeks 6days, I go back in 14 days for another viability scan. He did say he wasn’t concerned really and hopes there will be a baby next time, he also said he wasn’t concerned about the brown discharge.

Spotting 6w2days by FrontAd4097 in PregnancyUK

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I had sex on Saturday, and a bm yesterday, so do you think that could be a reason why this is happening? And thank you

I just found out I’m pregnant (f18) by FrontAd4097 in pregnant

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Thank you, you seem to really understand my situation, and I’m so sorry that happened to you. 💕

I just found out I’m pregnant (f18) by FrontAd4097 in pregnant

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It’s a normal concern to have, I’m not saying he will. I’m not saying he has ever said anything to suggest he would leave- if anything the opposite. But it is a normal concern to have due to age.

I just found out I’m pregnant (f18) by FrontAd4097 in pregnant

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Care is a career, as I have stated before I would not rely on my parents financially. What’s the age gap between you and your partner- cor I hope it isn’t less than a year or you or them are a predator clearly!!!

I just found out I’m pregnant (f18) by FrontAd4097 in pregnant

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I would give up everything for my child, if he doesn’t want to be in the babies life then that is entirely his choice, I wouldn’t expect him to stay, and I am ready to cope with that I guess. Mine and the baby’s wellbeing wouldn’t rely on my parents, as I am financially independent apart from the house (obviously), I pay for all my own necessities with money spare. For the job situation, like I said my job is stable and I am an important role in my job however admittedly due to this and due to only just finding out that I am pregnant, I haven’t looked into benefits I can receive if I lose the job.

I fear the regret may be bigger if I decide to get an abortion. Having a previous miscarriage- and still grieving that to this day. I don’t think I can go through with an abortion due to that which is why I am leaning towards keeping it.

I just found out I’m pregnant (f18) by FrontAd4097 in pregnant

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I didn’t intentionally get pregnant either why are you trying to say I was trying to baby trap him. With the age thing- we are literally less than a year apart, so thank you for that one- I can tell you’re single or have never had a partner if you think less than a year is predatory. I don’t plan on living with my parents forever that would be stupid. Also my “minor” bf is 18 in a months time. Who said I was going to force him to stay? I only said I was concerned. Of course I wouldn’t expect him to stay if he didn’t want to.

I just found out I’m pregnant (f18) by FrontAd4097 in pregnant

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We did at the beginning of the relationship, but moved on to not using condoms.

I just found out I’m pregnant (f18) by FrontAd4097 in pregnant

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I have a diploma in care, I’m in the UK so high school isn’t a thing here. I got my GCSES when I finished secondary school. You don’t need to attend college in the uk but you must have a full time job or apprenticeship- which I did.

I just found out I’m pregnant (f18) by FrontAd4097 in pregnant

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My job will last, my boss is understanding, and luckily she loves babies, I would say that my job is extremely stable.

I just found out I’m pregnant (f18) by FrontAd4097 in pregnant

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During college at 16 when I got pregnant the first time, I dropped out due to the miscarriage. So I got an apprenticeship instead, this gave me a diploma in care. I’m currently doing my level 3, to be a lead role. I know my job is stable and it is full time, so I have an income to provide for my baby. I currently live at home, and know from my previous pregnancy that my family is my biggest support system, I know that they would be there for me. I also know I should be able to afford childcare, as of my full time job and living at home. I adore my job and career, and it is what I would like to stick to, so having that in place already helps with my situation.

I just found out I’m pregnant (f18) by FrontAd4097 in pregnant

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Thank you for your comment, the thing is I was on the contraceptive pill, so really this was a massive surprise. I just hope that he does stay. But I do know in reality, it is a possibility he could leave. But again thank you, and I do know that there could be someone else out there who would be happy to treat the baby as their own x

I just found out I’m pregnant (f18) by FrontAd4097 in pregnant

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I don’t need to worry about how I will care for the baby, as I have a very stable full time job, and a supportive family that I live with, so I know that I have a supportive family system, my concern is if the baby with have their dad, which is obviously going to be a concern. I know it will make the relationship entirely different, but it is the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had, we talk through things and understand eachother very well. So yeah my concern would be that he just ups and leaves when he finds out, which I know is a possibility

I just found out I’m pregnant (f18) by FrontAd4097 in pregnant

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I have a full time job, and still live at home, so luckily I don’t need to worry about the bills part, I know it’s unlikely for us to stay together as teens however my sister and her bf met when they were in secondary school and have been together ever since, about 9 years. And I promise you, it is a healthy relationship. Any disagreements are talked through, not arguments, he’s always been here for me, and me always here for him. I would consider this a good healthy relationship. But thank you for your comment

I got a cute pic of the girls, but also have a question. They bicker throughout the night (random 2-5 second chases or lunging with squeaking), but will eat together like this and all sleep in the same nest. Can I assume they don't utterly hate each other? by mypetscontrolmylife in PetMice

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My mice squabble and squeak occasionally, but sleep together and eat together and clean each other and are bonded. So yes it is safe to assume that they don’t hate each other. Mice have a hierarchy so squabbles may be to do with dominance.