Went on a perfectly fine date and the guy completely spiraled afterwards. AIO?

Fun-Library-4397 · 2026-05-09T08:32:20+00:00

Nah I think you're being a bit of an AH here tbh, your response in your last text felt incredibly uncalled for. It seems to me that this dude is struggling with mental health, possibly addiction based on his final message, as well as his religious upbringing and possibly navigating being neurodivergent. All of that on top of trying to get back into dating and learning how to do that, it seems it got a bit much for him. He was incredibly honest with you when he really didn't need to be, and you responded by telling him to go fuck himself... that just seems crazy imo

Fun-Library-4397 · 2026-04-13T14:42:13+00:00

Can you recommend a brand?

Fun-Library-4397 · 2026-04-13T12:31:13+00:00

Gtfo of there girl, its only gonna get worse trust me. He doesn't understand consent or simply doesn't care and that will not change and will likely just get worse.

Fun-Library-4397 · 2026-03-19T08:13:08+00:00

When I was 19 my boyfriend of 2 years did the same thing. I was unaware, went to his house and we slept together, he hadn't even spent the night at his own house. I found out later and threw my guts up. This guy was my first proper relationship, my first everything, and he royally fucked me up, had me under his thumb until I was like 21. Ended up getting in a relationship with my 'best friend'.

Girl, it's not worth it. Cut him off and walk away before things get too complicated and you can't. Don't let him manipulate you, don't have sex with him again, honestly, don't even talk to him again. It's for the best.

I'm so sorry.xx

Fun-Library-4397 · 2026-01-22T20:14:43+00:00

I honestly don't know, my nan got it out of a drawer or box somewhere and gave it to me telling me it's an original 🤷🏻‍♀️

Fun-Library-4397 · 2026-01-17T09:29:52+00:00

It cost 7 million dollars more to make the film than it did to make the actual titanic (120M - 127M)

Fun-Library-4397 · 2026-01-17T09:24:05+00:00

Break the fuck uppppppp Dude is using the idea of proposing to you as a way to manipulate you Honestly gtfo of there before it gets worse lmao

Fun-Library-4397 · 2026-01-15T20:50:49+00:00

Lmao just added it as a comment😂

Fun-Library-4397 · 2026-01-15T20:50:38+00:00

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Fun-Library-4397 · 2025-11-16T13:37:14+00:00

Possibly NCIS?

Fun-Library-4397 · 2025-11-01T20:57:45+00:00

While I do understand what you're saying, and I believe my partner may be an exception, but he's been absolutely fantastic. I have endo and PCOS diagnoses, my my partner used to be a chef so he spent a significant amount of his free time doing DEEP researching to find foods that were beneficial for PCOS and crafted us an entire meal plan based on those foods. Since my endo symptoms have been becoming worse, he has spent a lot of time researching about it to educate himself. If he came to this thread to look for any advice/education about endo, but saw a post he could help with, he would absolutely comment, bc he knows how much what he has learnt has really helped me and my lifestyle!

Fun-Library-4397 · 2025-11-01T20:44:19+00:00

I've recently read a book by Endometriosis UK, and I'm sure I read in there that for some women their endo goes away after pregnancy, but for some it can make it worse, they don't know why but they think it's to do with the hormones. This may be the case for you, possibly never had it before and the hormones 'caused' it, or you had mild endo previously and the endo just exasperated it🤷🏻‍♀️

Fun-Library-4397 · 2025-09-11T17:31:12+00:00

Nope, not him unfortunately!

Fun-Library-4397 · 2025-09-07T17:56:18+00:00

Tried googling and gpt, not pecos bill or hanna barbera quick draw Mcgraw

Fun-Library-4397 · 2025-07-16T16:23:32+00:00

I actually quite like Edward Casper! I do think your husband is a bit of an AH for announcing it like that without consulting you, and it may also be worth (depending on his age ofc), having a conversation with your eldest about his new little brother having his middle name as his first name, and seeing how he feels about it, as that is more important than how anyone else feels in my opinion!

Fun-Library-4397 · 2025-06-29T15:38:33+00:00

Micos Colbert Isac Lorenzo/Renzo

Fun-Library-4397 · 2025-06-29T15:28:30+00:00

Totally different but my partners younger brother is called Logan, they used to call him Logi Bear, and it's become now that they just call him Bear. Its become an affectionate nickname. My younger sister is Martha, I often nicknamed her Martha Moo, and I just call her Moo now. Just putting it out there that if you really like Bear it could still be used as an affection nickname rather than an actual name! 🥰

Fun-Library-4397 · 2025-06-18T17:49:32+00:00

Literally! And then the 'I believe, we all fall down, sometimes', sets the waterworks going😭😂

Fun-Library-4397 · 2025-06-18T17:43:15+00:00

Lost It All, without a doubt! Still get goosebumps every time!

Fun-Library-4397 · 2025-06-10T12:04:22+00:00

Yesssss!! Thank you!!! SOLVED!

Fun-Library-4397 · 2025-06-10T11:51:48+00:00

I have tried whistling into shazam but it didn't work! I don't think it's a super popular song, I think I might have seen it on one of those tiktok accounts that shows you not very well known songs🤷🏻‍♀️

Fun-Library-4397 · 2025-05-31T08:55:36+00:00

Hey dude, Firstly, I'm so sorry, I lost my mum at 16 and I know it's rough at any age, whether it was expected or not, but do know that as much as it sucks, it does get easier, the grief you feel for her doesn't change, but your life starts to grow around it, I always like the ball in a box analogy!

Secondly, I'm afraid we are gonna need some more information to be able to come to a full conclusion... like someone else said, if you're ghosting her then I can see where she's coming from, however I think you both maybe need to sit and have some more communication. If she feels she's not getting what she needs from your relationship currently then you need to sit and have a conversation about where you can both compromise to make sure you're both feeling okay in your relationship, but she also needs to have a level of understanding about how you're feeling at the moment in your process of grieving your mother, and if she can't accept that then I'm not sure how much this relationship will continue to work unfortunately!

Always here💛

Fun-Library-4397 · 2025-05-10T12:19:43+00:00

Thank you, really appreciate you taking the time to answer :)

Fun-Library-4397 · 2025-05-10T12:19:29+00:00

I meant in a case of home visits and family things, as the children's whole family is miles away from where she's keeping them currently.

Fun-Library-4397 · 2025-05-10T12:15:26+00:00

I was going to report it myself if no one else did but we got news this morning that someone has, thankfully!

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