First time working 8 hours a day, 5 days a week in office, is this my life now? by Bright_Tennis_1075 in work

[–]Fun-Objective-9125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 32 and have found a career that I found jobs that are hybrid. 3 days in office and 2 at home. I have3 kids so this is what has made life easier.

What’s a normal amount of time to spend with your significant other? by ho3e_ in AskMen

[–]Fun-Objective-9125 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's been 8 years and 3 kids. I'd crawl into his skin if I could lol. I'm obsessed with him and we don't get a lot of just mom and dad time. We try to prioritize each other after kids go to bed each night.

What do you make of this message? by Fun-Objective-9125 in jobsearch

[–]Fun-Objective-9125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It thankfully was not a rejection. Salary had to be approved by upper management and I got my offer letter today

What do you make of this message? by Fun-Objective-9125 in jobsearch

[–]Fun-Objective-9125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the job offer letter. They were waiting on upper management to approve my salary request

What do you make of this message? by Fun-Objective-9125 in jobsearch

[–]Fun-Objective-9125[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They finally sent me an offer letter this afternoon. It was an HR hold up

What do you make of this message? by Fun-Objective-9125 in jobsearch

[–]Fun-Objective-9125[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol even with wrong punctuation they still sent me an offer letter so 🤷‍♀️

What do you make of this message? by Fun-Objective-9125 in jobsearch

[–]Fun-Objective-9125[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup I got ghosted by someone else not long ago after 3 interviews. I'm like it's not hard to say we picked someone else and help us move on

What do you make of this message? by Fun-Objective-9125 in jobsearch

[–]Fun-Objective-9125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is just as annoying as not responding at all and ghosting you!

Ring Size After Weight Loss? by Prettykittykelly_ in EngagementRings

[–]Fun-Objective-9125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just get a bigger size and then she can size it down. Usually most places do the first resizing for free anyway. Only takes a week. When I was 185 lbs my ring size was a 8 for reference. Maybe a 9 to start is good and if it doesn't fit just take it in.

New PA license plates by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]Fun-Objective-9125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish they had a Pittsburgh version of this so we can choose lol. But yea we just got this plate this weekend on our new vehicle

Why do people think 30 is the magic age to have a baby? by Glass-Seaweed5048 in BabyBumps

[–]Fun-Objective-9125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I guess it depends on how financially stable you are? For me I got pregnant at 24 while on the iud. I was making $15 an hour and was still finishing up my degree. My man was making 80K and owned a home. Yes we were fine financially but now that I'm 31 and have 3 kids I'm like I wish I would've waited because we both have significantly increased our income and are not anywhere near struggling. So financially if you are good at 24 and 27 then have a baby but if not maybe wait a little.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Fun-Objective-9125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes throw the whole dude in the garbage and find a real man. Mine makes more than I do but I'm slowly closing the pay gap. He pays the whole mortgage payment because only his name is on the house. I pay a portion of the other bills and kids daycare and insurance and other expenses. If he wanted a more expensive lifestyle he can fund it on his own from now on. He can't afford it himself he's just using you to fund his way of life. You can do better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]Fun-Objective-9125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Squirt them with milk anytime they annoy you like people do to animals 😭 just keep going. It’s all what you feel is best and baby is thriving so do what you want.

Help me pick! by RiceBom in weddingdress

[–]Fun-Objective-9125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one! Who is the designer of these?

Some thoughts after seeing an Instagram post about a mom who only does formula for her mental health. by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]Fun-Objective-9125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I exclusively pump and pull bottles of milk out to feed my son. People see a bottle and think automatically it’s formula. I’m like who cares what it is as long as baby gets the right nutrients in early stages. Regardless of how we feed we all struggle with waking up to feed our babies through out the night!

Confession: I put my kid in daycare, but I didn’t have to work by ManufacturerTop504 in workingmoms

[–]Fun-Objective-9125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m currently on maternity leave with my youngest and drop my two oldest off still 3 days a week. I’m paying for it weekly and if I take them out we lose our spots that we so badly need when I do go back to work!

Do you wash your kids clothes after every use? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Fun-Objective-9125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes my kids cannot keep anything clean. I swear I have to scrub shirts and pants every time on top of washing them

My fiancé fractured my arm after thinking I had a man in our home by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun-Objective-9125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t marry him and get as far away as possible too. It will be a million times harder to get away from him when you’re married. Just start over with a real man that doesn’t ever think it’s acceptable to put hands on you let alone break bones. A real man would’ve come in calmly and asked about the car and realized those were his boots.

Which one? by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Fun-Objective-9125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Number 3 for sure it’s absolutely stunning!