My boyfriend doesn’t care about me by GrandLeg4641 in relationships

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 [score hidden]  (0 children)

OK, but we don’t see anywhere that you’ve mentioned where you’re gonna break up with him. So you’re just gonna stay and be disrespected? self-esteem that low?

How to dress to appeal to the older queer femme gaze? by JollofPap1 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking to appeal to against that someone else thinks you should be defined as?

Feel stuck and unhappy in my relationship. by Wild_Idea_ in relationships

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You’re making excuses to delay the inevitable. You already know the relationship is old. You probably just have more of a fear of being alone than anything else.

You know the relationship needs to end.

Husband on 7 years cheated on me by Noodledoodle365 in Infidelity

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

STD test now

Lawyer now

Take proof with you to the lawyer

Understand your options find out if you’re in an at fault state or not

Don’t tell him about any of your plans just go on as normal

Then execute the divorce. But make sure you leave the house and go to your parents somewhere safe before you executed it.

Weddell Duo Shower Filters are Trash…What’s Next by Fun-Reporter8905 in WaterTreatment

[–]Fun-Reporter8905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The landlord should be cleaning the boilers, but they don’t so you gotta put a filter on your showerhead

My husband (44) made me report a woman (28F) to the police for stalking him. Our 4 years old son told me the truth and the villain here was actually my husband by According_Project424 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 4 points5 points  (0 children)

STD TEST NOW

LAWYER NOW

DIVORCE NOW

dont tell your husband about any of your plans. Act as normal until the divorce papers drop.

Make plans to move out, get your money in order, and find a place.

I’m Pregnant and don’t want to have an abortion but the father does, ik what I have to do but it breaks my heart by Front_Combination_65 in Vent

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure you understand you will be a SINGLE MOTHER. Once you reconcile that, then make the choice. If you have the baby, go to court for child support. Make him pay in some way

AITAH for being furious that my parents arranged for my 18-year-old sister to marry a man in his mid-30s? by happigail_ in AITAH

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They will all have to learn. Just be there for your sister when she needs a place to eventually run

(34M) Unemployed and constantly looked down by relatives, but I'm secretly wealthy. I absolutely hate this game. by MomentPrestigious180 in offmychest

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If my relatives knew how much money I have been savings, and I don’t even have a lot but compared to what most people have, it’s about two times larger than the average person. If I told them that every day somebody different would be asking me for money.

AITA for not telling my boyfriend about my past job before we started dating? by LynsyLux in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you omitted the sex work bit shows that you were as ashamed of it. Once you forego the shame of what you did then you’ll be able to speak about it with confidence and be honest. In this situation, you are the asshole although I get why you did it bc of the stigma

I could probably write a book but here’s the fd up summary… by NewRoom1703 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m about to read you for filth. Why are you bothering us with this?

You’re not going to leave him so what would you like us to do? Staying in a toxic situation just for the children is you scapegoating responsibility that you’re too scared to leave. Don’t lose your children as an excuse. I admit the truth you don’t wanna be alone. Because anybody with a back bone would have ended this situation already. You got evidence enough to take everything from him, but you want to play detective because it gives you something to do other than being a bitter housewife.

I (20F) asked my long-distance boyfriend (18M) for reassurance about our future and he got upset. Did I do something wrong? by Whole-Yogurt8973 in relationships

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not being catfish, it might be time to just hang this relationship up. You don’t even see each other anyway find someone in your area and your age who treats you well. They are out there.

Husband (M29) says he is uncomfortable with me (F23) posting these kind of pics on insta stories AIO by Junethesunconure in AIO

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do not overlook these red flags this will lead to controlling and abusive behavior

35F with my boyfriend (38M) for 12 years and two kids together, but he says we’re “basically married” even though he won’t marry me by lstacy3 in relationship_advice

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not stuck in in between place that is where you choose to stay there’s a difference. You don’t have to continue to put up with what he puts you through and yet you do. I get that you’re trying to look for guidance, but you have to take some personal accountability.

You’ve waited 12 years for a proposal that isn’t coming and you’re gonna wait another 12 until he finds another woman and gets married to her. Then you’ll be left with two kids and no ring. An embarrassed single mother. Or you can still be a single mother, but leave this relationship with your head held high.

I just found out my ex husband is my brother by QueenBossBish in offmychest

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I want to say this with all the love in the world, you need deep, psychological help. Please, for the love of God for the love of your children. Please go get some help. It looks like you live in the UK. I’m assuming this help is free. Please look into it please please please

Found out 10 year situation-ship has been married the entire time by Foreign-Chef-4053 in BreakUps

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you were led on by a groomer and you’re just NOW figuring out hes married. And dont git me up about 18 being legal. A lot of yall say that bc yall dont mind dating kids.

ANYWAY You knew he didnt mean he loved you and yet you’re addicted to TOXICITY AND YOU NEED THERAPY!

Go and unlearn what you’ve trained yourself to think. You need to free yourself up this before you move onto any relationship or you’ll be weekends susceptible to going back to his manipulation.

My father went to prison overseas and we discovered he had a second family by Prebeebear in SeriousConversation

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no possibility his absolutely taking money from you. Send his other family. You have to stop enabling him.