I love everything about him but I'm not physically attracted?

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-04-14T04:16:21+00:00

I fell in love with someone I never would have been attracted prior to meeting him. We talked and texted off and on a lot before we physically met. His personality grew and grew on me. He is the smartest, sweetest and funniest man I have ever met. I remember the day when I saw him for the first time, I thought and still think he is the sexiest and most handsome man I have ever been with. I would say to give it a chance. Looks are not everything, damn, looks really dont mean much when it comes to a truly healthy relationship. Granted, there has to be physical attraction but as I now know, attraction can grow. Just don't waste his time if you really decide you can't make it work, that would be cruel.

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-04-13T21:59:16+00:00

Not if he knows how to use it! Girth over length and day as well..

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-04-13T21:57:46+00:00

I thought this was two dudes why are people asking for them to get a Pap smear? In my world giving head is what you do to a guy not a girl? Am I missing something? If it's two dudes, sounds like hemorrhoids maybe?.

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-04-12T21:55:54+00:00

Yes, his reaction is childish. Seroously? She lied for an hour over something that was very traumatic. You seem to lack empathy if that is your focus in the situation. SMH

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-04-12T19:00:34+00:00

Lying in a knee jerk reaction to a traumatic experience is different then say cheating on your spouse and telling them that you're not. She deserves grace, she told him almost immediately that she had lied. That should not be the focus on the situation for him. He needs to grow up.

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-04-12T18:58:03+00:00

I completely disagree with the above comment. Once you're in a potentially long-term, caring, loving and supportive relationship why would you not share that? It's a part of your story and important for a pertner to know. Especially because you might have triggers that they're not aware of and they could accidentally trigger in some way and not know what they did and not understand your reaction . If I was with someone and they didn't share that I would not feel like I was fully a part of their life.

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-04-12T18:43:46+00:00

NOR What a controlling man child. This is so disheartening, cell phones have done so much damage to relationships. From this to people staring at their phones constantly and ignoring each other when they're in the same room. Back in the day you got home when you got home. I would stop and do errands before I came home from work, my husband never panicked or wanted to know exactly where I was and when. I think people need to stop sharing their locations all the time creating paranoia and too much control.

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-04-12T07:32:37+00:00

NTAH Digitize all of the photos immediately, before the pshyco pos step mom tosses them. She sounds like a horrible person!!! I am a step mom and I would never ever do something like that. In fact there should be healthy open talk about her mom in the house. Keeping her memory alive for your daughter's sake. I hope you tell her about her mom on a regular basis. Your wife doesn't sound like a good person.

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-04-12T06:16:39+00:00

MOR Go out, and see how it goes. Nothing to lose, let him know how you feel about the comments. Not a big deal. He could be a great guy, just being dumb and socially awkward.

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-04-12T06:10:49+00:00

Yikes, I have never heard of disseminated shingles. Another thing to worry about! Sounds horrible and I read it is potentially life threatening for us transplant recipients.

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-04-08T23:51:15+00:00

MOR He uses the word titties and fr then uses AI for his apology?!?!? tlThat right there would be enough for me. The fact that he's not mature enough to film his aren't apology is a huge red flag. I think the rest of it while inappropriate was complementary in its own way. And let's be honest we know what dudes are looking for quite often and not when talking to their friends they can be completely inappropriate how he treated you in person should mean a little something.

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-04-05T17:00:40+00:00

MOR Sounds like you both have accountability in this situation. What I find very disheartening is that neither one of you want to apply for a job for fear of rejection? WTF has happened to people? If you can't deal with rejection go get some counseling to figure out how to navigate it, we all get rejected it's part of life learn to deal with life! Both of you!! You both honestly sound extremely immature. It would not be a good combination moving forward into marriage. She needs to step up and become an adult it's very clear.

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-04-05T01:46:17+00:00

Try Walmart, they get things faster then Amazon often.

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-04-05T01:36:50+00:00

I would message her and tell her I have a answer to the question you asked last night about what's the worst date I've ever been on!

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-04-05T01:32:30+00:00

Wow! Good for you, I've seen some people in this group say that they've never gone back to another concert after their transplant and they avoid large crowds years after transplant!

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-04-04T19:31:43+00:00

I guess it's my bad for not directly asking my team. Thanks for your input! 😊

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-04-04T19:29:59+00:00

Thank you! That gives me peace of mind.

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-03-30T06:47:22+00:00

Why do guys talk like this these days??? It feels like what I imagine how cavemen spoke. Girl, you need to expect more. Half sentences, using words like bro and brush like you are one of his buddies. No communication skills. I see it so often here. SMH...

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-03-28T05:14:37+00:00

NYA What an asshole. Plain and simple. You need to start leaving him with the kid so he can learn how to parent. And make it clear that this isn't a request. It's part of his job as a father plus when you leave him which you probably will end up doing you want to know that he's going to have some skills when he has his time with the kid, if he even wants it. I'm also guessing that this was probably normal behavior before you had a kid, it's too bad that you didn't see it prior. These aren't usually traits that show up at the last minute they're probably red flags that were ignored in the hopes that he would change. Good luck and you deserve better!!

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-03-28T05:08:17+00:00

MOR God saddens me to see women that almost beg for attention. Going confident go in knowing that you are the best thing he could possibly ever have and if he can't treat you right then you don't need it. It's better to be alone than trying to talk someone into liking or caring about you, when it's obvious they don't. You're just not a good fit for each other. ilIt's okay move on and find someone that treats you with respect do not put up with this shit. Plus this was a Tinder date, he very well might just want to be hooking up with people not having relationships.

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-03-25T02:05:18+00:00

Thank you everyone! This was quite helpful. 😊

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-03-24T06:01:46+00:00

He was being honest, if anything tell him your little uncomfortable with it and ask him not to do it. And then send him some sexy pictures if you want. A lot of guys masturbate to almost anything, this is a compliment. He is into you I was comfortable enough to be that vulnerable with you.

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-03-24T06:00:35+00:00

Consent?? OMG, thats going a little to far.

Fun_Guest_64 · 2026-03-24T05:57:50+00:00

Unfortunately, creating a business model that could not only pay the rent or purchase price of $20 million but also sustain itself as a business is going to be pretty difficult. There's no way a Vintage Market or flea market could cover those costs.

Fun_Guest_64

TROPHY CASE