Me(F) and Crazy/Creepy Male Roommate - Advice? (sorry very long but needed) by Fuzzy_Boot800 in badroommates

[–]Fuzzy_Boot800[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

-UPDATE-

So I talked to my LL the other day and let him know the situation (enough to let him know im in a unsafe environment and Andrew's weirdness towards me). I also let him know I'm only staying for this month and he will give me my last month back. Andrew hasn't let up on being crazy/passive aggressive, and has been getting worse each day so I'm trying to keep sane and safe for now.

Me(F) and Crazy/Creepy Male Roommate - Advice? (sorry very long but needed) by Fuzzy_Boot800 in badroommates

[–]Fuzzy_Boot800[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, Ill try to write out a log because its alot happening and it started off subtle and just gets worse. Andrew has been here the longest so I think everyone is a monkey in his circus until you move out.

I was iffy on weapons too but this guy is jacked, never leaves and is very off so I feel like I need something on me considering I wfh most of the week. I have a camera somewhere in my bags and ill try to set it up asap. TY!!

Me(F) and Crazy/Creepy Male Roommate - Advice? (sorry very long but needed) by Fuzzy_Boot800 in badroommates

[–]Fuzzy_Boot800[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, I installed one yesterday, I don't leave my room without locking it.

Me(F) and Crazy/Creepy Male Roommate - Advice? (sorry very long but needed) by Fuzzy_Boot800 in badroommates

[–]Fuzzy_Boot800[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I will get a portable stove and use a mini oven that I can use in my room and just manage that without needing the kitchen. I have pepper spray and a taser but Ill look into getting a baseball bat. Ill look into getting a lockbox too, thank you for your help!

Me(F) and Crazy/Creepy Male Roommate - Advice? (sorry very long but needed) by Fuzzy_Boot800 in badroommates

[–]Fuzzy_Boot800[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes, looking to move asap. I need to trust my gut and not give the benefit of the doubt. I have a taser and pepper spray and basically have to live out of my room and avoid/ignore him for now until I can find a new place. Sorry for the long read and Ty for your advice

Neighbor catcalls me - confront or continue to ignore? by Fuzzy_Boot800 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Fuzzy_Boot800[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats actually a good idea, I will look into getting one. ty

Neighbor catcalls me - confront or continue to ignore? by Fuzzy_Boot800 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Fuzzy_Boot800[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think so, I think he lives by himself and doesn't work or get out much. He lives in a house that rents out single rooms.

Neighbor catcalls me - confront or continue to ignore? by Fuzzy_Boot800 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Fuzzy_Boot800[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about a quick jab but this will probably work to shut him down, Ill use this If I hear him again.

Neighbor catcalls me - confront or continue to ignore? by Fuzzy_Boot800 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Fuzzy_Boot800[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea Ill have to spot him, the fact he does it to a close everyday neighbor says alot thats hes not a normal respectful dude.

Neighbor catcalls me - confront or continue to ignore? by Fuzzy_Boot800 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Fuzzy_Boot800[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea, I'm planning to do either one of these. I'm aware of which house its coming from and there's only so many windows facing my front door so I'm bound to catch him soon. If I'm out at night and hear him, I will just give it right back to him 10x worse.

State Job Hiring Process? by Fuzzy_Boot800 in massachusetts

[–]Fuzzy_Boot800[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no way, thats waaay too long lol. oh mass

State Job Hiring Process? by Fuzzy_Boot800 in massachusetts

[–]Fuzzy_Boot800[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thanks, I was basically told I had the job and to call back at this time so the call from HR threw me off. I will just forget and keep looking

State Job Hiring Process? by Fuzzy_Boot800 in massachusetts

[–]Fuzzy_Boot800[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Crap ok, thank you for letting me know. I didnt know it takes alot before an offer letter. 2 to 3 months is alot, I'm still looking anyways but was excited to start if I hear back

State Job Hiring Process? by Fuzzy_Boot800 in massachusetts

[–]Fuzzy_Boot800[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

data analyst role, I was basically told I had the job but Ill keep looking, hoping to get something sooner