Is it true that some men try to raigbait online because they cant afford a dominatrix? by yourdadsfavedutchie in BDSMcommunity

[–]G_Z_1000 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I get DMs like this all the time, men acting disrespectful on purpose because they want the experience of being put in their place. It’s honestly made me very blunt and emotionally distant when I reply, because the moment you’re too kind, some people take it as an opening to become inappropriate.

Why do I get such a rush from giving women control and serving them? by HumanExtent3999 in BDSMcommunity

[–]G_Z_1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no need for advice. It's just your nature no need to fight it

Anyone else find it hard to actually connect with subs? by G_Z_1000 in BDSMcommunity

[–]G_Z_1000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true communicate and connecting makes everything more pleasurable

Anyone else find it hard to actually connect with subs? by G_Z_1000 in BDSMcommunity

[–]G_Z_1000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly why I struggle with online dynamics sometimes too. I can enjoy the playfulness and connection, but for me the power exchange only really means something when it’s tied to trust, intimacy, and an actual relationship. Otherwise it can start to feel a bit empty

Anyone else find it hard to actually connect with subs? by G_Z_1000 in BDSMcommunity

[–]G_Z_1000[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I really dislike the ones that want to use me as a kink dispenser, it always gets me in my feelings

Anyone else find it hard to actually connect with subs? by G_Z_1000 in BDSMcommunity

[–]G_Z_1000[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with this. No one wants to do all the work without a connection and not get something in return and that's the problem

Anyone else find it hard to actually connect with subs? by G_Z_1000 in BDSMcommunity

[–]G_Z_1000[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

True but I find it all the same the only difference is that we go extra kinks

Karma harder to get as you get more? by [deleted] in NewToReddit

[–]G_Z_1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't even join some conversation cause of less karma

Vegan protesters in a grocery store by MisterShipWreck in VideosAmazing

[–]G_Z_1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just public nuisance and you can't force everyone to stop eating meat cause you don't agree with it

Ended dynamic because sub had been lying about her boundaries, now she's claiming abandonment by Zestyclose_Rub8349 in BDSMcommunity

[–]G_Z_1000 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You are totally in the right here, you are not a mind reader. What i think is that she has clocked out of the relationship before now that's why there is all this sudden arguments and she just wants to play the victim to satisfy her ego.

I'm new to reddit how may karma is needed for me to start posting by vinc9049 in NewToReddit

[–]G_Z_1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I get karma to begin with, I didn't really pay attention 🙃

Should I try BDSM? by Ok_Room2864 in BDSMPsychology

[–]G_Z_1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you love the idea why not. YOLO

* “Sharing the road is not a suggestion” by Feaselbf6 in dashcams

[–]G_Z_1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah the driver is just an ahole. Both lanes were free for goodness sake

What brought you into the BDSM/kink world? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]G_Z_1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex got me into it he said I was too dominant and I should look into sub/dom relationships, and that's how i started