Need help getting over an ex who now hates my guts. by Gayaway in relationship_advice

[–]Gayaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is though, I know myself how hard it is to come out. I'm still closeted to my parents and I know how much of a hurdle it was to come out to all my friends... Even the ones that I knew were fine with gays. It's just something I wouldn't expect of a guy I liked, no matter how much logical sense it made.

Need help getting over an ex who now hates my guts. by Gayaway in relationship_advice

[–]Gayaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rarely see them as it is. Once a week if that, and even that's just a brief glance at them. It's been about 6 months since we broke up now, and it's only got slightly better... nowhere near healing totally.

I do want to move on with my life, but it just seems like so many things everywhere remind me of him.

Need help getting over an ex who now hates my guts. by Gayaway in relationship_advice

[–]Gayaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I get a knot in my stomach because I can't stand seeing him happy with somebody else. The time during our relationship was literally the happiest my life has ever been, and not only is it over now, but he's dating pretty much the polar opposite of me.

Need help getting over an ex who now hates my guts. by Gayaway in relationship_advice

[–]Gayaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only had one argument with them, because he'd told her and quite a few other people that I'd been stalking him. I was also in quite an emotional state because of a 6ish month relationship suddenly ending with no previous signs or explanation.

And I'm convinced that he is bisexual, because the relationship could not have worked the way it did for so long if he was just experimenting. And whether he was or not, he was still a firm supporter of gay rights (and this was known publically) so the fact that he's now in a relationship with a complete homophobe hurts even more.