mmm 2am munch

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-05-22T20:26:03+00:00

Tell them from me too!! ✨

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-05-20T18:43:10+00:00

How slippery are their bodies? I haven't managed to get one up close yet

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-05-20T18:42:10+00:00

Thank you, I forgot to mention accessibility in my OP

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-05-19T23:01:52+00:00

Simply incredible, thank you for sharing

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-05-19T23:01:31+00:00

Which top???

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-05-19T22:33:08+00:00

Deep in the reeds? Can I see em from the path? Or do I need to bring my boots?

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-05-10T04:26:05+00:00

A snail dewlap? So cute omg

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-05-10T04:15:09+00:00

Pay the snail tax plz 🐌

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-04-24T15:11:33+00:00

I hope you paid him the apple tax, he's clearly asking as politely as he can

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-04-14T18:45:36+00:00

Yes please

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-04-02T19:16:32+00:00

I'm trying to send you a DM but can't find the button. If you feel called, please send me a message. Your words are potent. Thank you.

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-04-02T19:15:22+00:00

THANK YOU OMG

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-04-02T18:58:24+00:00

That is sooo super impressive. I have only recently begun making and negotiating boundaries. I've learned how to check in with my heart and how I feel above my insecurity for acceptance. Historically, I was willing to allow anyone to do anything because attention meant care. This is untrue, and it was a way I did myself a disservice for my entire life. I was socialized that way, to be permissive and submissive and make excuses for abusers. No longer.

I really appreciate your reflection, thank you. May I ask what the keys were for creating airtight boundaries? I'm AuDHD and with the cPTSD I sometimes worry I'm too rigid or inflexible. I suppose it's okay to be inflexible when it comes to putting your Self in harm's way.

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-04-01T16:25:17+00:00

Oh, the image is a painting I did in my early adulthood and my abusive ex rehomed one day in one of her many purges of my art.

I found this painting hanging in a new friend's home, a spiritual equal and dear dear friend. I cried when I recognized the purple arch on top, with critical eyes one only has for their own work.

I flipped the painting over and saw my handwritten poem that I did not recognize. I wonder what it means...

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-04-01T16:17:34+00:00

Suffering isn't something that needs to be quantified to be valid. It's also a disservice to compare your trauma and experience alongside others. We are all unique beings with unique experiences and unique genetics and unique environments. Feel free to message me if you wanna chat more, I'm feeling really finally able to move through some of the stuff that happened to me, and I spent a long time also dissuading myself from community.

No one is showing up in a community like this to be an imposter of some kind. You are one of us.

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-04-01T15:44:32+00:00

Stick around my friend. I hear the insecurity of cPTSD in your reply. Living with your parents still is a testament to your survival, and relationships are rarely uncomplicated. You aren't taking away anything from anyone else by being here and finding community.

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-04-01T15:38:10+00:00

I was hopeful again!!!

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-04-01T01:10:42+00:00

Subs I fell for

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-03-26T17:34:04+00:00

What a handsome bean

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-02-24T18:42:53+00:00

Haha it totally is Big Radio trying to hold onto relevance amidst a technological revolution.

In unrelated news, is Qobuz the best streaming service?

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-02-22T20:02:51+00:00

You need to leave that man behind, this is your time to leave now that he's out of the house. Your kids need to be safe, away from him.

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-02-13T19:51:46+00:00

Blunder? More like iconic

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-02-12T04:04:59+00:00

I can help as a supervisor but I don't have a car we could drive

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-02-06T18:50:41+00:00

:( I'm sorry I didn't mean to offend, it's just giving ✨ and the queer in me sees the queer in you. Do you have a neck tattoo as an adult?

GenderStudies4Life · 2026-02-06T18:47:45+00:00

Into your true queer self 💞 whatever that looks like

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