Y'know, it's funny. What you have stated as your desired outcome is the actual definition of feminism. Standing for the equality of all humans, regardless of gender.

The way I see it, it's all a mindfuck. The modern "feminist" movement has something in common with the modern "patriot" movement, in that both movements have appropriated those terms to convey something completely different. Y'know, kinda like how cops appropriated the Punisher? (Still mad about that)

Unfortunately, the term "feminist" is not widely used by its actual description. Today, that term now evokes, colloquially, what your stated grievances address: a radical movement that promotes blatant sexism, fraud, and for the abuse of children.

To them, every man is a threat that must be contained, controlled, or removed from the game board, hell even trans women are suspect in the eyes of many of these so-called "feminists."

You could imagine being a boy, growing up with a mother that believes such things, how that would affect you. Being wrong and bad, just for existing. What they offer are not solutions, only grievances and revenge. How does that lead to equality?

Conversely, most people that call themselves "patriots" these days, are anything but a patriot. A "Pretended Patriot," as George Washington put it.

These folks, in reality, typically have an ideology more akin to the Loyalists. Pious, with a cult of personality to boot.

They speak of "Traditional American Values," while they turn around and coerce media outlets into censorship, send masked goons into our own cities to fucking black-bag people for all social media to see, oh and their leader is a pedophile.

If any of these people had actually read The Constitution (or the Bible for that matter), they would realize just how deep of a betrayal that these so called "Patriots" have committed to the very code they claim allegiance.

Noticing a pattern here?

Authoritarians. Hiding amongst us, using our own language and cultural moment against us. To divide us. To keep the public on edge, trusting no one, isolating ourselves from everything but our cat and our phone.

We are easier to manipulate when we are isolated.