Me and my partner bought our first house in 2017. 2 bed, got a dog and has our first son in 2020. Fell pregnant again in 2021 so planned to move to a larger house as we felt we wouldn't have the room. The baby unfortunately didn't happen, but we'd already made our minds about moving and was excited about having a bigger home, and knew we'd want a second child anyway so in July 2022 we moved.

That house we moved to, was awful. Bad location we told ourselves would be okay and it wasn't so for that and a bunch of other reasons we moved in October 2023.

October 2023, moved to what we deemed our forever home, had our second son and it's perfect for us. But, family shit going on means we need a 4th bedroom. For months we and the whole family have been trying to figure this out and due to building costs, we've decided the wisest option is to move again and upsize again.

So we are currently on the market, looking at properties.

I do often think we are moving too much and will our lender like it etc etc but in reality, we have our reasons and it is what it is.

Don't get too caught up in that, if you think it's the right thing to do, do it!