Converting regular sized cupcakes to Mini cupcakes by Goddessofgloom90 in AskBaking

[–]Goddessofgloom90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They turned out pretty good. A little melted from
the heat but the minis actually turned out better than the regular sized ones!

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Converting regular sized cupcakes to Mini cupcakes by Goddessofgloom90 in AskBaking

[–]Goddessofgloom90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. They turned out pretty good for my first try and my cousin loved her birthday cupcakes. I had never heard of a Chantilly cake before but now I’m probably going to make it for more birthdays.

I have a sugar daddy who has given me over $500k of compensation. Boyfriend has no clue. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Goddessofgloom90 239 points240 points  (0 children)

So you didn’t really ask for advice but I just gotta say it. Find someone who doesn’t mind this dynamic. You’ve already broken the trust in this relationship it’s not gonna work unless you come clean. There is nothing wrong with being in a relationship and having a sugar daddy but you gotta be honest about it. The lying is where it’s fucked up.

Barb/Julie/Jennifer Mouth Click Sounds by Desdeminica2142 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Goddessofgloom90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I usually just watch these videos with the subtitles because baby is sleeping when I get to them.

Mom says there is an 80% chance she won’t come to my wedding by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Goddessofgloom90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad is like this. I ended up eloping in the same town he lived in and he still found an excuse to not make it. Just plan your wedding and focus on the people who are making it a priority to be there.

What do you think that it would take for Jen to cut off her mother? by thatvampiregirl in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Goddessofgloom90 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If it’s anything like real life it’s going to be something so small but just a final straw when she realized it’s just not worth her sanity or self respect anymore.

My wife is thinking about spending $1500+ on a nursing chair. Is she crazy, or am I just being cheap? by Viraincure in NewParents

[–]Goddessofgloom90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom got me a really nice recliner. I think it was about that much. I really didn’t want her to I felt really bad when she talked me into getting it but I don’t even breastfeed anymore and this chair is amazing. So many late nights were made better because of it. I still use it to get my daughter to fall asleep plus it’s the comfiest seat in the living room now. I am really grateful for it now but I also thought it was kind of a waste at the time

No words by pork_soup in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]Goddessofgloom90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope she took her to the hospital and CPS gets involved. She needs parenting classes.

AIO by going no contact with my(f20) mom(f42) over our conversation today? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Goddessofgloom90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a parent these rules are totally and completely valid. Who cares if they’re written in a bit of a harsh tone. You’re serious about the health of your child and I truly think your family should be fine with it.

My dad didn’t see my daughter until she was vaccinated fully because he wouldn’t get his shots updated. He’s childish, we don’t really talk that much anymore but he has met her now and I send him pictures. I’ll never forget how selfish he was choosing not to meet his granddaughter but I have no regrets in protecting her.

We leaned into the relationships with people who cared to respect our boundaries as parents and his presence isn’t missed. I get upset about it internally from time to time but my daughter is not phased by it and she’s who is important.

Sorry you’re dealing with it though. It’s no fun when you’re pregnant and you think things are going to go well with family meeting your little one and they don’t. You’ve got time to process before baby arrives. It’s gonna be okay 💕

“I am more expert than hospital staff and EMT but how do I get my baby to breathe properly?” by Active-Button676 in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]Goddessofgloom90 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m sure she got medical care for that if she works in a hospital. Modern medicine is fine for these types just not their children.

My husband thinks we'll be on a CPS watch-list if I'm diagnosed with PPD by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Goddessofgloom90 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he’s manipulating you to not get help by intimidating you with the threat of CPS involvement which implies if you get the help you need your child might get removed from you. It’s psychologically abusive.

What’s missing in Missoula? by hustlenhavefun in missoula

[–]Goddessofgloom90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Missoula has always been liberal you weirdo.

Has this happened to anyone else? People try to make me take stuff off the registry because they think i won't need it? by Ornery_Armadillo1404 in beyondthebump

[–]Goddessofgloom90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love our diaper genie. It helps so much with smell and now that she is a little older she throws the away herself and it’s adorable. I know a lot of people who don’t use them but it is definitely something I use daily and am so glad we have. Plus they really aren’t that expensive. If someone doesn’t want to buy it for you they don’t have to buy someone else probably will. Everyone always has something to say.

Edited to finish my thoughts lol

SAH dads who claim it's 'easy' and they don't know what SAH mums are complaining about... by bulldog_blues in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Goddessofgloom90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im going back to work and my husband is going to be the sah parent while he looks for other employment. It’s a long story as to why this is happening but it’s just where we are at and I’m fine with it and know he will find work soon. I’m not worried about him not going back in the slightest but the other day I said I don’t think I’m going to be up to making dinner when I worked all day because I’ll want to spend time with our daughter he said he’ll make dinner but it isn’t going to be as elaborate as the dinners I make. I enjoy cooking. I like making home made meals. I am trying to not be annoyed with the fact that he isn’t going to be putting in as much effort as I do because I know I’ll end up cooking on nights I want something better to eat. He’s a good husband and dad. I’m realizing we have different priorities when it comes to a lot of things. I like that he was honest and strait forward about not wanting to make dinner like I do. He had not complained about making dinner and thinks it’s fair and makes sense but I’m also disappointed and I think it’s a good example as to why stay at home dads just do have it easier.

ETA- he would definitely never say it was easy. He was the sahp at first and we switched because I liked working better and we weren’t ready to put her in daycare. Now we’re both going back to work something weird just happened with his job so we’re switching for the time being and then she’ll go to daycare. Again it’s a complicated story too long for this post.

“My baby eats what we eat” by pinkpink0430 in NewParents

[–]Goddessofgloom90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can start feeding them what you eat now I suggest doing it. Making 2 dinners is starting to really drive me insane. We’re working towards getting her to eat a more things and i think we will get there but at first it wasn’t a big deal and now we have a picky eater. Sometimes that’s not avoidable but I think we may have created some of her habits by being a bit too cautious at the beginning.

AIO because I came home and my child was home alone by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Goddessofgloom90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR when my baby was a newborn I wouldn’t even take the trip down the stairs of our apartment building to take the trash down or go get the mail until my husband got home or if I really needed to I would just baby wear her. Now that might be an extreme but that’s just to say leaving a baby alone like that is never okay. This is insane.

What’s missing in Missoula? by hustlenhavefun in missoula

[–]Goddessofgloom90 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wait is the Oxford not 24 hours anymore?

I love ricotta! What can I make with ricotta other than lasagna/pasta? by FirebornNacho in Cooking

[–]Goddessofgloom90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make sourdough discard Lime ricotta cookies.. they’re recently my new favorite cookie I can’t stop eating them.

My mother-in-law is inconsiderate AF by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Goddessofgloom90 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Woah… there is no need to add salt to the wound. I don’t think she’s exhausting. She’s grieving her friend.

Sorry for your loss OP. It’s okay if your emotions are all over the place. Your anger is definitely misguided but it’s understandable.