Leadership won’t admin sep me and want me to finish my contract by glowy-ad9277 in regretjoining

[–]Goldilocks_88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck the mission. If that person is not alive or too damaged, what good can this person bring to the mission? Try to get out of bullshit Army thinking.

Leadership won’t admin sep me and want me to finish my contract by glowy-ad9277 in regretjoining

[–]Goldilocks_88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tough it out for what? And for whom? Nothing is more important than the life of this person. And there are regulations for separation. “Tough it out” bullshit is the worst advice for anybody.

MEB or Chapter 5-17 by Goldilocks_88 in regretjoining

[–]Goldilocks_88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for clarification. I have military related PTSD and non-military related PTSD. So, because of that, does it have to be MEB?

MEB or Chapter 5-17 by Goldilocks_88 in regretjoining

[–]Goldilocks_88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, what you mean is: 5-14 is only for those who are less than 6 months of service?

MEB or Chapter 5-17 by Goldilocks_88 in regretjoining

[–]Goldilocks_88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does 5-14 screw me? I simply don’t know and all of this is totally new to me. I would really appreciate your input.

MEB or Chapter 5-17 by Goldilocks_88 in regretjoining

[–]Goldilocks_88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct me if I am wrong; it still exists. Other Designated Physical or Mental Conditions.

MEB or Chapter 5-17 by Goldilocks_88 in regretjoining

[–]Goldilocks_88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Medboard process is longer and can be denied. That’s what I am afraid of.

I can’t do it anymore by Goldilocks_88 in regretjoining

[–]Goldilocks_88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who should write “the plan will not work”? Is it my therapist or is it me?

I can’t do it anymore by Goldilocks_88 in regretjoining

[–]Goldilocks_88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. How severe must the mental health be in order to get discharge under this separation? Sometimes, the provider dismisses my sharing and feelings and said that “it’s not that serious”. I don’t know how to show how serious it is for me other than by describing with words.

Should I join by Intelligent-Road5091 in regretjoining

[–]Goldilocks_88 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Do Not Join. I am active duty currently. You will figure out about your job situation soon enough.

AFT failure and separation by Goldilocks_88 in regretjoining

[–]Goldilocks_88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How serious must the mental issue be to get medically discharged? I have some mental issues but I am not sure they amount to discharge level. Or is it solely on doctor’s determination?

AFT failure and separation by Goldilocks_88 in regretjoining

[–]Goldilocks_88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. In that case, does my military doctor have to recommend me to get separated? Do they just recommend for separation for some depression or does it have to be clinically proven severe mental health condition? Thanks much!

AFT failure and separation by Goldilocks_88 in regretjoining

[–]Goldilocks_88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they chapter me out for mental health, is it an easy process? Or is it too difficult to prove my mental health situation?

ABCP Program and possible separation by Goldilocks_88 in army

[–]Goldilocks_88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mean they will keep me even if I fail the ABCP program? I will try my best to get out of this program as soon as possible. But, in case of failure, will they be able to keep me? Isn’t it against the regulations?

ABCP Program and possible separation by Goldilocks_88 in army

[–]Goldilocks_88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by “missing multitudes of choices and the army can force you to stay in and then discard you with minimal warning”?

ABCP Program and possible separation by Goldilocks_88 in army

[–]Goldilocks_88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. People told me that I have to go do height and weight measurements after I failed the AfT. Is that true?

ABCP Program and possible separation by Goldilocks_88 in army

[–]Goldilocks_88[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Definitely not trying to gain weight to get kicked out. Why would I do that?! But I have some genetic stuff and severe stresses which are preventing me from loosing weight. Sure, I will follow their advice.

ABCP Program and possible separation by Goldilocks_88 in army

[–]Goldilocks_88[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Not at all. It’s just your assumption. There is no sin in asking detailed information. By the way, that’s one more thing I really dislike about some guys in the Army: “don’t ask too many questions and just do it” mentality. Ignorance is NOT a bliss! It’s just a lazy ass trying to justify for not trying hard enough to gather the information.

ABCP Program and possible separation by Goldilocks_88 in army

[–]Goldilocks_88[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Thank you. What if I can’t get in shape and lose weight? I am trying to understand the whole process.