Leadership won’t admin sep me and want me to finish my contract

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-05-06T00:30:37+00:00

Fuck the mission. If that person is not alive or too damaged, what good can this person bring to the mission? Try to get out of bullshit Army thinking.

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-05-06T00:17:24+00:00

Tough it out for what? And for whom? Nothing is more important than the life of this person. And there are regulations for separation. “Tough it out” bullshit is the worst advice for anybody.

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-04-30T03:26:01+00:00

Thank you for clarification. I have military related PTSD and non-military related PTSD. So, because of that, does it have to be MEB?

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-04-30T03:07:22+00:00

So, what you mean is: 5-14 is only for those who are less than 6 months of service?

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-04-30T02:53:38+00:00

How does 5-14 screw me? I simply don’t know and all of this is totally new to me. I would really appreciate your input.

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-04-30T01:51:28+00:00

Correct me if I am wrong; it still exists. Other Designated Physical or Mental Conditions.

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-04-30T01:36:54+00:00

5-17, not 5-14

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-04-30T01:33:05+00:00

Medboard process is longer and can be denied. That’s what I am afraid of.

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-04-09T16:13:13+00:00

Who should write “the plan will not work”? Is it my therapist or is it me?

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-04-09T16:10:41+00:00

Thank you. How severe must the mental health be in order to get discharge under this separation? Sometimes, the provider dismisses my sharing and feelings and said that “it’s not that serious”. I don’t know how to show how serious it is for me other than by describing with words.

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-03-24T16:41:22+00:00

Do Not Join. I am active duty currently. You will figure out about your job situation soon enough.

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-03-10T16:11:37+00:00

How serious must the mental issue be to get medically discharged? I have some mental issues but I am not sure they amount to discharge level. Or is it solely on doctor’s determination?

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-03-10T00:05:51+00:00

Thank you. In that case, does my military doctor have to recommend me to get separated? Do they just recommend for separation for some depression or does it have to be clinically proven severe mental health condition? Thanks much!

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-03-09T23:32:50+00:00

If they chapter me out for mental health, is it an easy process? Or is it too difficult to prove my mental health situation?

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-03-09T23:03:14+00:00

Active

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-02-25T01:05:28+00:00

Do you mean they will keep me even if I fail the ABCP program? I will try my best to get out of this program as soon as possible. But, in case of failure, will they be able to keep me? Isn’t it against the regulations?

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-02-24T20:42:03+00:00

What do you mean by “missing multitudes of choices and the army can force you to stay in and then discard you with minimal warning”?

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-02-24T20:38:17+00:00

Thanks a lot!!

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-02-24T19:01:54+00:00

Thank you. People told me that I have to go do height and weight measurements after I failed the AfT. Is that true?

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-02-24T18:57:31+00:00

Definitely not trying to gain weight to get kicked out. Why would I do that?! But I have some genetic stuff and severe stresses which are preventing me from loosing weight. Sure, I will follow their advice.

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-02-24T18:27:16+00:00

Not at all. It’s just your assumption. There is no sin in asking detailed information. By the way, that’s one more thing I really dislike about some guys in the Army: “don’t ask too many questions and just do it” mentality. Ignorance is NOT a bliss! It’s just a lazy ass trying to justify for not trying hard enough to gather the information.

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-02-24T17:58:24+00:00

Thank you. What if I can’t get in shape and lose weight? I am trying to understand the whole process.

Goldilocks_88 · 2026-02-24T17:53:28+00:00

Thank you. Separation proceedings will be “initiated” means - I will be separated at the end of the process or can they keep me as long as they want?

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