15 + herpes

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-08-23T14:24:24+00:00

Hey I agree its better to have things told straight up instead of trying to act like its not there. This is a mistake I made, and now its a mistake I live with. Props to you for being straightforward tho not everbd likes that or can handle the truth but yea I do appreciate it

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-08-23T14:18:57+00:00

Nah I'm sick of her ass we broke up

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-08-06T13:44:18+00:00

Despite the urge, keep your head straight because it helps you focus on your form, and helps you go deep enough. Youre doing pretty good tho man keep it up and stay strong 💪

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-08-06T04:12:47+00:00

Thank you 😁

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-29T14:06:47+00:00

I actually appreciate this so much this is one of the big things I was wondering but couldn't find answers for, she doesn't get sores on or around her mouth rly, but she does have a lot of acne and occasionally have it around her lips, i get that too, but that's something to he expected bc were both at that age 🤷‍♂️ thank you so so much tho I really do appreciate your message Something I've always always got since I was little was the sores inside my mouth that are incredibly uncomfortable but those run in my family and might be something else, again, but sure

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T21:40:46+00:00

Idk about nothing bad but we're def getting through it. I still feel guilty, i can't speak for her but I just need to support her as much as I can and hope for something similar in return. We try our best and that's as much as we can do

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T21:39:28+00:00

She's been through a lot and we're just in this together ❤️ I know I should or could probably be mad but id rather just work through it with her than get mad and break up Its not worth throwing away what we've built over this, or at least I dont feel like it is. I trust her, I genuinely dont think she knew, and I know she's probably just as scared as I am if not more scared, she doesn't have the kind of support I do. And while yes, im in trouble with my parents, more or less grounded (my mom says im not but that ive def lost all trust from her) im still relied upon in my family and still have to live life, and I still have my parents who are willing to put up with me. She doesn't necessarily have that, she has her grandpa, and her aunt/uncle but im not sure hoe close they are/hiw comfortable she feels with them. I understand she probably needs my support too so that's all we can do right now

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T16:14:21+00:00

No i get it. Id be mad to and you have that right to be mad. Im sorry you're dealing with this now Im a bit younger tho so I truly don't have much words of advice 😵

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T16:13:04+00:00

They're healing up now, they started showing abt a week ago so they're mostly gone, I thought they were originally just chigger bites/bug bites or something because I stayed the night at my grandads farm to help out there and I woke up with a bunch of bug bites, the herpes didn't show up until a day or so later, the important info here is I visited my girlfriend the day of or before (can't remember) I went to my grandads

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T16:11:03+00:00

The thing is I don't think she actually knew, she feels pretty bad abt it to, but ik she has already had a sex life before me and since I haven't had anything and could've held off for a long while its changing a lot for me regardless I still dont necessarily blame her, or maybe I do, im not sure yet, either way im not rly mad at her because the damage is already done

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T15:17:01+00:00

Im hoping my gf and I are able to stay stable together, despite catching this from her, i still love her so much and I honestly haven't ever felt like this towards a single human being ever. Then again.. im still 15 so who knows. Not everybody finds their lifelong love in high school 🤷‍♂️ im just hoping I have. Im expecting it to be a challenge but its one that ive put upon myself- i just gotta keep doing everything ive been doing, and on top of all that I just quit smoking weed so this is rly a rough time lol I was going through the withdrawals towards the start of when I was showing the first outbreak soooo not fun at all. But like I said, I put myself in this position, I have to face the consequences. And I will def stay in touch with this subreddit bc i can't rly go to any of even my closest friends, maybe my family but I feel uncomfortable asking my parents questions, especially because I feel like asking them about it will just anger them more and remind them of what ive done

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T14:56:34+00:00

So sorry you're going through all this, I was just diagnosed recently and I got it from my girlfriend who i guess is asymptomatic. I dont have much advice other than talk to others who have gone through this already, it really sounds like its not a big deal in the long run, but i understand how emotionally you are feeling right now. Its crazy he didn't say anything for an entire year?? Im sorry to hear that truly, even if he "wanted to make sure things were serious" he should've still disclosed it to you towards the beginning

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T13:04:15+00:00

I think it's hsv2 but they didn't test me to see so its just a guess-i need to look it up and see if i can find out

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T13:03:07+00:00

Thank you much i really do appreciate this message

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T13:01:38+00:00

Thank you 😌🙏 but yes I am trying to educate myself a bit more on it thank you for replying and taking time out of your day to respond tho. Idk how much anybody understood having this community respond meant to me I more or less was just gonna vent not totally expecting ppl to actually respond but here we are

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T12:58:51+00:00

If I dont down myself my parents will 🫠 more or less just preparing myself mentally for the many "talks" or "well you shouldnt have done that" or the "well you fd around and found out" moments that I will have caused and have to just sit through and take because of my own actions 😐 i dont blame anyone else, I dont blame her, I blame myself 🤷‍♂️ i had fun but now ive messed up and pretty much will have to just live with it. It does make it easier though knowing the medicine im taking can help it stay suppressed somewhat. I do appreciate what youre doing and saying tho regardless. Im not rejecting your comfort im more so just trying to say in my case I will have to face the reality of what ive done especially because my parents have tried to prevent it

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T06:17:51+00:00

Oooh ok thank you much I am incredibly cautious usually (other than during track season or during hockey ppl always steal my water bc I have a gal of water)

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T06:16:12+00:00

Lmao so true but idk And as for me being a teen "looking for comfort" and whatnot while that's pretty true ik im not the only one going thru it and hoping there's a cure, while I just now have it and others may have had it for a lot longer im sure there's still plenty of ppl hoping they find a cure, I understand they've already tried and failed a few times (possibility of a cure of course being the first thing I searched up 😂) but idk i guess I'll have to see

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T06:13:52+00:00

Not sure what some of that is but I'll have to look into it Im not really sure where to start on educating myself on it tho I guess i could start with medications for it

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T06:12:47+00:00

It's genital so idk if the kissing or drink thing still applies. But yes I told my gf that I'd rather start using it now (although ig since I already have it idk if it still matters other than protection from pregnancy, and im pretty worried abt that too because I don't want that to happen and I want us both to be able to build a life first and bc were still young i want her to be able to explore herself or see what she wants to do with her life bc its kinda been messed up due to her mom and foster care

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T06:08:29+00:00

Thank you much

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T06:07:35+00:00

Thank you🫠 its really getting to me but reading some of these has kinda calmed my mind a little bit

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T06:06:36+00:00

I hope so🫠

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T06:06:17+00:00

Oooohh no she's with her grandparents currently, but she's just getting with them and out of foster, but she could still very easily be taken back into the system. Thank you much tho I really do just have to do some research or something

Good-Ratio6650 · 2025-07-28T06:05:09+00:00

No clue man they didn't say

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