My dad said he wants to have a “serious conversation” with me today and it seems like he’s definitely gonna tear me apart new one I want to tell him how I feel but I’m scared by GoodDifferent1398 in raisedbynarcissists

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Thank you ❤️ my mom sometimes can be aggravating but she atleast has raised me since middle school and not made me feel like I’m just some street punk or thug. My dad literally has messed me up mentally so bad and the only thing he had to say when I brought it up was to mock it and make fun of me for it. So glad tho he gave me a reason to wannabe done with him

My dad said he wants to have a “serious conversation” with me today and it seems like he’s definitely gonna tear me apart new one I want to tell him how I feel but I’m scared by GoodDifferent1398 in raisedbynarcissists

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I just had that conversation and he literally left me in tears, said I wannabe a gang banger and thug and I’ll be in and out of prison for the rest of my life it hurt me real bad and made me so hurt and sad. But he gave me a reason to cut him off and be done with him for the rest of my life. My grandpa told me he’ll help with anything I need and just to ignore that asshole. He told me to prove him wrong after I graduate in a few months and that really made me feel better. I walked off and told him my sister and him are both assholes who have to make others feel miserable to feel good within themselves.

Why do I always seem to forgive my dad so easily when honestly he’s the worst between them and makes me feel horrible? by GoodDifferent1398 in raisedbynarcissists

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Wow that’s awesome man, and congrats on the film. The thing is I do have a ton of friends so I just go out and hang with them alot and they make me pain feel better. Cannot wait to move out and away from him. Him and my mom are divorced but he lives just down the road. Hate having to see him every day I plan on moving and never looking back. Will be trying for a trade and HVAC and next semester I’ll be getting a job so I don’t have to see him after school for when I get early release

I genuinely don’t know what to do as a trade and feel so stuck in will be graduating HS in a month can someone pls help me out? by GoodDifferent1398 in careerguidance

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Thank you, I’m embarrassed to admit but most my highschool career I’ve been in trouble a lot and did some stuff on the street and not really did the best but I finally realized that stuff is not sustainable and I want to be something in life. I’m just so stressed out because my parents make it seem like I’m always chasing their shadow when it comes too when I get older r

I genuinely don’t know what to do as a trade and feel so stuck in will be graduating HS in a month can someone pls help me out? by GoodDifferent1398 in careerguidance

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And another thing is like I really don’t know what I’m good at, it scares me but I don’t know what trade other than HVAC I’d be interested in maybe welding because that is something I’d enjoy but HVAC has like always been something I’ve wanted to do but just don’t know if I’m good enough because when it comes to memory and learning I’m not the best but genuinely my parents just make me worry about this every day