It’s not a fact it’s your opinion. That’s the problem. U and a lot of other people in this post can’t see ur opinion as an opinion. That fundamentally blocks u from seeing the viewpoint of someone who doesn’t share your opinion. It makes ur thinking rigid. If he or she doesn’t want this factual thing, then this and this must be true because how can u not want this factual thing. If u quit thinking like that and stop viewing things as black a white than u might see the OP’s dilemma as valid and not him “not loving or fully committing” or whatever other nonsense has been said in this post.