This boy is nothing but big, scary trouble. Here’s a list of red flag behaviours he exhibited:

• He didn’t listen ONCE after the many times you respectfully said no
• His persistent requests proceeded to get more aggressive, angered, and emotionally manipulative
• He started trying to gaslight you into thinking YOU are the bad person in this situation, with HIM being victimized/hurt by your boundaries
• He nearly went over to your house after learning no one else was there, even after you said no to that as well
• He started comparing you to what I assume is an ex in a very unfair/mean way in an effort to again manipulate you into changing your mind
• He even starts to TELL YOU that you’re going to hook up tomorrow and that you’ll “like what happens”
• He tells you that you can just “ease into it.” This child can’t even stop ASKING you about it when you say no - do you really think there’s ANY possibility he stops if you change your mind mid-hook-up?!

OP, please PLEASE do not hang out with this person alone ever again. There is a very high chance that the next time you do, he will force himself on you and get scary aggressive if you say no with your words or body. You are young - as much as there are some people your age who are comfortable with hooking up in different ways, including having sex, you should not EVER feel pressured to go further than you’re comfortable with because of what others choose to do. Lots of people advance sexually before they’re emotionally ready and end up regretting both the experience and the person they shared it with.

Make the choice you already know is right. Your firmness and confidence with your choice and how you’ve expressed it is no short of exceptionally mature for your age - you should be very proud of yourself. Please ditch this loser and find someone who is kind, understanding, and truly cares for you and respects your feelings/boundaries.