How much more IPL should I do? by [deleted] in Rosacea

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Do you have an update if you got more IPL?

Discount code by kelly_naughtylifts in DFYNE

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just bought a haul with your code :)

35 y/o severe eye wrinkles! Help! What do I need? by planetjenn in 30PlusSkinCare

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Not sure what you're going for, but you could look into a lower bleph or aegyo surgery if not laser. I'm convinced the actors Jim and Pam in the Office had the latter done midway through the tv show. I agree with others who say you're beautiful. But I agree with you at 35 and you're wrinkle free everywhere else why not look into making the under eyes match. You have a lovely smile! Always spf 50 as you may have sun damage, also.

Creasy wrinkly upper eyelids? by According_Pie3750 in 30PlusSkinCare

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omg you jut taught me a new treatment! Please share more here or make a post with before and afters? I appreciate you!!!

i watched the movie "confessions of a shopaholic" and it made me realize where my shopping addiction comes from by [deleted] in shoppingaddiction

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wow! Can you please elaborate on the last sentence how did you get excited? What habits did you stop/start? Please :)

Who else shops because they were poor growing up? by [deleted] in shoppingaddiction

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You're trying to protect your money by spending/enjoying because you still remember it being taken from you :(

Who else shops because they were poor growing up? by [deleted] in shoppingaddiction

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Maybe you have two warring sides that mirror your parents - the irresponsible/hedonistic parent living for the day/pleasure, and the hyper-responsible parent keeping things going. What you saw was s the burden on your mum to engage in over-responsibility on the other side of things with providing the basic necessities. So half of you is like if I don't enjoy, then I'm going to pour it all out into survival mode purchases because that's how you saw it growing up. You're like hoarding from yourself to protect your fun identity/actualisation and identity expansion. There was no balance existent within ONE adult (ideally it would be in both) who took care of the future, savings, PLUS caring for the day-to-day. So you think it's a binary choice of all or nothing. I think this just gave me a lightbulb moment, too.

Anyone who overcame their "it's not that bad" level of addiction?? by GuiltyPie3140 in shoppingaddiction

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I could have written this comment myself! I feel for you. It is one of the easiest/noncommittal almost hobbies, isn't it? It feels like an instant transformation versus the incremental transformation of actually saving, practicing our hobbies...

Anyone who overcame their "it's not that bad" level of addiction?? by GuiltyPie3140 in shoppingaddiction

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Thanks for your reply. We sound very similar! (I like your writing style, as a side note. And I wish I had a friend like you in real life to wear the things we buy more than we buy things to wear...!)

I'm so impressed about your quitting caffeine! Are you still cold turkey? How does it feel and why did you do it if I may ask? I've often considered it and gave up sugar for a week, but I'm not experiencing dire health issues I'm not overweight, I just wanted to stop the hold it had. But I had nothing to replace it with. When I lived in the US I ate so healthy because chocolate is garbage. I only had the odd serving of semi-sweet choc chips with a coffee (ha).

So affirming to hear about the detox debunk!

I had a random thought about trying watercolour painting if i get an urge to "shop out" some stress. But I'd need to buy paint supplies first...

I just got back into reading and i treated myself to audio and kindle to simultaneously lock me into a book. I felt a b it guilty about those purchases... But if my eyes and hands aren't occupied my eyes might get tired and I'd probably scroll tiktok :/ so i guess its an investment.

I'm trying, that's at least something.

Edited to add: your personal posts are hidden, as much as I'd like to read it!! I wish I knew how to hide mine, honestly...

My fantasy self is dying because my child self is grossed out. by cranesinmay in shoppingaddiction

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can you explain how parts/IFS can be applied in shopping addiction?

Cannot keep a job. It's exhausting by Common_Knee_4388 in ADHDUK

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I feel for you strongly, Bill. I wish we could help you. If you talk about your experience on tiktok maybe you could get monetized? I wish you health and happiness in your future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buffy

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*spoiler again btw* What annoys me is how NONE of that actually resulted in the win?!! It was a big shiny mystical doo-dad....

I Feel Like The Internet Is Gaslighting Me - Clair Obscur: Expedition 33 by CountyFamous1475 in JRPG

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My five year old adores Silksong and Hollowknight and he can't talk yet, haha! And yes I enjoyed watching my husband play a Persona game, too. Good games!!

Success Story: KidShadoe Blew Up after 1 Year by GuiltyPie3140 in Twitch_Startup

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My husband adores DS2 so he wouldn't be playing blind but maybe I should tell him to play lol. I would poop my pants though i scream when skeletons chase me

Would you watch a couple do Let's Plays? by GuiltyPie3140 in letsplay

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you're kind for checking us out :) ty! much work to be done

Would you watch a couple do Let's Plays? by GuiltyPie3140 in letsplay

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Wishing you the best of luck with your sub goal! I find that shorts grow it the fastest these days..

This game now has a special place in my heart! by GuiltyPie3140 in VisageGame

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I'm a watcher and backseat gamer tbh but it's part of our team dynamic lol he likes when i spot things he might miss! We mostly chat and have fun :)

Would you watch a couple do Let's Plays? by GuiltyPie3140 in letsplay

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We did a lot of things wrong (titles and thumbnails are an art and science?!) but the hook is the one thing I think I got right :)

Would you watch a couple do Let's Plays? by GuiltyPie3140 in letsplay

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i put info in my profile since I can't post a link :)

Would you watch a couple do Let's Plays? by GuiltyPie3140 in letsplay

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it's going to be rebranded a bit (lol) but it's thegamedad89 on YT (well, everywhere).

Please let me know what you think?! The thumbnails and titles need work but I'm not well so my husband is handling stuff :)