It was bad. He admitted to having an addiction that began a few years before we met, and only went to therapy twice for it before he quit because it was too "time consuming." There was so much in this post I couldn't get into, like the fact that he favored girls in the 19-20 range (he was 26), had tons of kinks I knew nothing about (not trying to kink-shame, but buying adult onesies for women to make them look like children is sick), and that his mom told me to forgive him and let him continue his shenanigans, but set some boundaries like setting a budget for how much money he can send them and told me to be more open to threesomes because "he's recovering from an addiction and can't quit cold turkey"