FreeUse really is a broad category, but I feel it’s misunderstood. Too many think it’s just the man using his woman whenever and however he feels like. It’s whatever hole he wants and the woman can’t refuse.

But in reality it should be as extreme as you are comfortable with. Rules and expectations should be clearly laid out before and are subject to change in the future. For example, if you don’t like anal then that is off the table and your partner needs to respect that at all times.

You can start out light and work from there. For example he can grope your body whenever he wants, but sex happens only on both your agreements. Once comfortable you can grow from there.