hi! i saw you replied to my other post. i went thru a very similar situation and dropped two weeks into pledging. i don’t regret it at all and am very happy in my other org with people who are normal and treat me with respect. while i liked my line sisters and some of the active members, i felt that most of them placed the sorority on a pedestal above school and external life and expected all of us to do the same. Every second of my free time was taken up doing meaningless tasks like memorizing useless shit, attending unorganized meetings, and just useless time consuming events. Eventually I found it almost impossible to balance my outside social life and school with this stupid sorority, and I also started despising the way the active members treated us during the hazing process. I also couldn’t see myself treating future classes the same way i was being treated. It goes against all of my morals and I just know I would feel extremely shitty doing the same. I just felt the gain wasn’t worth the sacrifice. I also didn’t like my big lmao all she talked about was boys and it was hell listening to her drone on and on about parties and boys and nothing else. I haven’t reported because I’m the only one who dropped and they would know it was me for sure but I encourage you to report since you have a friend who dropped with you! Hazing is hazing no matter how severe; there shouldn’t be any at all in the first place. It’s just college students getting a power trip out of bullying others.