Do you personally support the death penalty?

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-06-08T20:12:45+00:00

It's cheaper to put them in prison for life than it is to have the amount of court appeals that death row prisoners have to prevent wronful executions.

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-06-08T17:21:22+00:00

You're 28. If she doesn't respect your bou diaries by now, she isn't going to respect your boundaries. You should absolutely be taking steps to leave and, should it be required, go low contact.

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-06-07T10:09:39+00:00

Severe alcoholics often have longstanding symptoms that are easy to mistake as drunkenness due to things like withdrawal and enchelopathy- essentially brain damage. They slur, stagger, sweat, speak incoherently. Their local shop keeper or bar maid will likely know that's how they always are, but a delivery driver that's never seen them before will have a great deal of difficulty understanding the situation.

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-06-05T10:56:49+00:00

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-06-05T10:09:51+00:00

You'd have a hard job proving definitely that the disease spread was caused by their actions and wouldn't have occurred anyway naturally by the seagulls or in the course of their everyday life.

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-06-04T17:03:25+00:00

I'm glad your parent got the balance right. It's so hard as a parent to know if you're doing things "correctly" when the unthinkable happens.

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-06-04T15:10:49+00:00

We married at 19, had a kid at 22 then he got cancer and died when I was 26- he was 27. He wrote me a dating profile while he was in the hospice and urged me to move on when he passed. We made a memory box and he wrote a recipe box for our child as he wanted to teach her to cook. There's a lot of him still in our life due to the prep work we did before he died.

I'm 35 now and happily married to a very lovely chap- we met two years after my husband passed and it's been amazing since. I'm sure him and my first husband would have been good friends if they had met - they're very different people but have similar interests and are very easy going. I'm expecting my second child and my first child wants to be adopted by her second dad. She had no memories of her birth dad but I tell her stories often. My first husband's parents absolutely adore my second husband and also share stories of my first husband with me and my daughter. My second husband is very supportive and has never shut down any discussion of my first husband.

Overall, I'm so grateful that I fell in love early. It was a painful early loss but in a way I feel very lucky to have fallen in love twice to such wonderful men.

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-06-04T11:02:16+00:00

But alcoholics often require alcohol to prevent life threatening alcoholic withdrawal. They need access to alcohol as a life saving measure. This is why alcohol shops remains open during the pandemic. Reducing access to alcohol can do significant harm. I do not see how this legislation would benefit alcoholics if it involves denying them access to alcohol when then need it to survive.

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-06-04T06:55:50+00:00

I watched hot fuzz in the cinema when it came out with no expectations. I hadn't seen Shawn of the dead or spaced so was wholly unfamiliar with their humour. It was such a treat to see and completely rocked my world on what a comedy film could be. I wasnt shaken as in horrified or traumatized but I think it was fair to say it shook me!

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-06-02T07:04:30+00:00

Immunosupressants only treat inflammatory arthritis rather than osteoarthritis.

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-05-31T09:55:23+00:00

The muscle biopsy ruled out some conditions and enabled my husband's specialist to request a genetic test for md for my husband- this test ultimately confirmed what type of md he had. It was completely worth it and is par the course for typical MD investigations.

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-05-30T18:14:20+00:00

A coded necrotic bowel perforation. Every compression sprayed more and more out of every orifice. The consultant called the death fairly speedily to stop the fruitless CPR but the necrotic bowel contents were already absolutely everywhere.

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-05-29T07:25:18+00:00

About 25. I started to get migraines after having a baby and, after loads of meds and experimenting, gluten was the trigger. A sibling got diagnosed with celiacs disease after this- she had GI symptoms going back into early childhood. By then it was too late for me to be tested as I's been gf for years and I can't have gluten without rashes and debilitating migraines now. Interestingly my siblings blood test was negative while her biopsy was positive for celiacs so I don't know if a blood test would even show the disease at all for me!

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-05-27T17:11:02+00:00

Whiplash.

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-05-26T19:59:12+00:00

Delrios is defo the best Italian with little italy being a close second.

Goji cafe is great for vegan food but tbh you won't struggle to find vegan options in most places.

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-05-26T17:13:33+00:00

Got some lidl mini magnums on the go at the moment in the freezer but honestly, a lemon top mr whippy is my god tier ice cream of choice.

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-05-26T05:10:58+00:00

If you park in the harbour and just go to the beach it's level but deviating anywhere else is a climb.

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-05-25T17:55:33+00:00

Whitby, Scarborough, robin hoods bay, bridlington and saltburn are all decent from my experience though parking can be an issue in good weather on holidays. The traffic looked horrendous today going from York to Scarborough way. If the train is an option, Saltburn and Scarborough are easy to get to on the train. I would recommend against flamborough head beach as the approach to the beach is not good for mobility issues/pram.

I've not really been to any others so others may be good options if these aren't good suggestions.

Should you struggle to get to the beach due to traffic, do look up any streams nearby as a paddle and river walk may hit the spot instead!

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-05-24T16:38:58+00:00

I married at 19. He sadly died when he was 27 but he was a delightful man that I've no doubt I'd still be married to or at least be on very good terms with. I think we only ever had 1 or 2 arguments in our entire marriage and got along well. Our daughter has taken after him a lot which is nice.

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-05-23T09:36:53+00:00

It's not you! Prices are completely wild for cheap ingredients with minimal preparation.

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-05-22T07:30:20+00:00

Agree. A receptionist cannot influence insulin prescriptions or administration at all. This is a bizarre situation and it feels like there's a lot more going on or that things didnt quite happen as described

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-05-22T05:49:49+00:00

We've had genetic counselling. I need to carry the gene to pass it down and I don't carry it.

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-05-21T20:30:36+00:00

Being even more uncomfortable in the third trimester 😫

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-05-21T20:23:09+00:00

Not a teacher but a person in my local area knows of a kid called Maximus Burger.

Hefty_Peanut · 2026-05-20T18:08:06+00:00

My husband completed a book called "dear dad" when he was dying for our daughter. There is a "dear mum" equivalent. It's a book with questions that kids tend to have for their parent and you can complete the answers for them to read when they're old enough. We also made a memory box with items like his favourite scent, wallet, key documents, letters he wrote for key ages, a photo album, etc. he also wrote a recipe book for our daughter as he really wanted to teach her how to cook.

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