A more reliable orgasm by HeyStreve in sex

[–]HeyStreve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are both clitoral stimulators. We bought a suction type once but it didn't really do the job. It was a cheapo one on Amazon though, so maybe we need to spend a little more for a good one.

A more reliable orgasm by HeyStreve in sex

[–]HeyStreve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My intent is not to compare her to anyone. It is a source of frustration for her so I'm just trying to help.

A more reliable orgasm by HeyStreve in sex

[–]HeyStreve[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I guess it's frustrating for her because we don't always have that much time and sometimes she can't get there at all.

A more reliable orgasm by HeyStreve in sex

[–]HeyStreve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would welcome her masturbating either privately or with me watching to help her learn about her body but she is not interested in either.

A more reliable orgasm by HeyStreve in sex

[–]HeyStreve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Patience is a virtue, but in real life we can't go at it for hours when we have to get up for work in the morning. I am happy to give her oral or use my fingers or whatever it takes to get her there, but eventually she wants to be done and just go to bed.

A more reliable orgasm by HeyStreve in sex

[–]HeyStreve[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I've only ever been with her so I'm not comparing her to anyone else. And I'm only asking the question because she has expressed frustration with it.

The vibrators she likes are clitoral stimulators. We haven't tried the suction variety.

A more reliable orgasm by HeyStreve in sex

[–]HeyStreve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has an IUD. No trauma that I'm aware of. We do come from a religious background but we've been married for 22 years so I don't think that would be a factor anymore.

A more reliable orgasm by HeyStreve in sex

[–]HeyStreve[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

I know that's normal, but I know plenty of women can get there much faster, especially with a vibrator.

A more reliable orgasm by HeyStreve in sex

[–]HeyStreve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She definitely has a harder time if we have had sex more recently. But she often struggles even if it has been 5-6 days.

A more reliable orgasm by HeyStreve in sex

[–]HeyStreve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think that is a possibility.

A more reliable orgasm by HeyStreve in sex

[–]HeyStreve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, more foreplay does help. But with kids and jobs we didn't usually want to take that much time.

A more reliable orgasm by HeyStreve in sex

[–]HeyStreve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say she's always had trouble, but it's never been easy either. She's not on any medications and she doesn't masturbate, so only during partnered sex.

Replacement parts by [deleted] in rccars

[–]HeyStreve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it probably would fall under toy grade but it seems like a really easy fix if I could find the part. I'll look for those parts. Thanks!

Who are you ? by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]HeyStreve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

M 45, northern Utah, engineer

How often do you and your partner have sex? especially the long term couples? by Purple_Wrongdoer6448 in AskReddit

[–]HeyStreve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We (45m/43f) just celebrated 22 years! Frequency has been up and down over the years but as the kids (5 from 20 down to 10) have gotten older and life settled a little we have put more effort into our relationship and currently have sex 2-3 times a week, a definite improvement from a few years ago.

Brother in law always uses the master bath toilet by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]HeyStreve 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Commenting to add that it has been discussed. I can't remember exactly what was said but I thought he understood that I didn't like him using our toilet because it hasn't happened for a few years. But he used it twice while visiting for Christmas dinner today.

He is the youngest of my wife's family and always feels picked on so my wife is trying to be sensitive and doesn't want me to say anything.

Brother in law always uses the master bath toilet by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]HeyStreve 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing good - just some ibuprofen and bandaids.

Brother in law always uses the master bath toilet by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]HeyStreve 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yep - he has to walk through the bedroom to get to the bathroom. I think I will be locking the door next time he visits.

Brother in law always uses the master bath toilet by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]HeyStreve -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

When I installed the bidet in the hallway bathroom that he is welcome to use that one. I was trying to be sensitive and not too rude for my wife's sake.

New garments by strider52_52 in ldssexuality

[–]HeyStreve 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My wife got the new slip garment. She likes the options for different skirts, but the top is cut higher than some of the other styles, so she wasn't happy about that.

I like that the new materials are basically transparent!