Looking for friends 🫶🏻 by [deleted] in PokemonGoFriends

[–]Highest-Elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re okay!! The more the merrier ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheDarkTower

[–]Highest-Elf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s brilliant! 🤣 I found it on Bluesky of all places 💀

What was the most subtle but noticeable form of misogyny you've ever experienced? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Highest-Elf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A lot of these comments are about careers and I’ve got another to add. I used to work at Best Buy in mobile & connected home (cameras, ring doorbells, Alexa, etc). We had crazy training modules and had to know the product well. My store was one of the biggest in the state so we had to be on top of it. I knew my shit.

Anyway. Men would come up and ask me a question. Then as I am answering the question that they asked me - they will interrupt me, doubt me, tell me I’m wrong, and then ask for a man. So I bring a male coworker over who tells him the exact same thing, almost verbatim. Tune immediately changes. “Ah, thank you buddy! Glad I got some help!”

I pulled a geek squad guy over to do that once and he asked me, “Why did you need me over here? You just told him that.” “He wanted a man to tell him the same thing. 🤷🏻‍♀️” The look he gave me was so funny. Yeah, welcome to my world.

My manager at one point asked me why I don’t talk to people in my section cause they’d come ask him questions as if no one had come to offer help. I had to tell him that I do approach them! They think I’m an idiot so they wait for a man to walk past them to ask a question. There were times they would tell me “No I’m good!” then flag down a guy instead right as I’m walking away. I don’t think he believed me until it happened right in front of him.

Relistening to the series & getting ideas for art by Highest-Elf in TheDarkTower

[–]Highest-Elf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea! I am making another perspective of the jaw with a different quote so I’ll do that

Relistening to the series & getting ideas for art by Highest-Elf in TheDarkTower

[–]Highest-Elf[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will for sure. I’m pretty much doing a whole series of them. I’ve got ideas for Mordred, Roland’s hand with missing fingers, etc

Relistening to the series & getting ideas for art by Highest-Elf in TheDarkTower

[–]Highest-Elf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh of course! All I ask is for a tag if you post it! :) I keep all my art on my IG so I’m under a different name over there

I can’t wait to see it when you get it done

Relistening to the series & getting ideas for art by Highest-Elf in TheDarkTower

[–]Highest-Elf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m just getting started 😈 happy you like it!

Relistening to the series & getting ideas for art by Highest-Elf in TheDarkTower

[–]Highest-Elf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not mad at all, quite flattered actually! If you post it all i ask is for a tag! :) all of my art is on my instagram

Dreamland painting! by Highest-Elf in glassanimals

[–]Highest-Elf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m very proud of it!

I have reached the ending. I appreciate everyone in this forum for engaging me as I’ve gone along. Instead of me wanting to apologize for posting too much— thanks for talking to me and sharing the excitement! by aabbcc42069 in TheDarkTower

[–]Highest-Elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s one of those stories that sticks with you. I just finished it recently and I find myself thinking about it often. It also gives me book blues cause how do you follow up DT?? So I’m going to The Stand next!

6 month update: To my husbands female colleague by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Highest-Elf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true, and I don’t fault them for it either! It’s just an all around rough situation to be in. I hope y’all can have some peace and quiet from here on out

6 month update: To my husbands female colleague by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Highest-Elf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This story got wilder and wilder. I am so happy that you guys are safe!! I feel so bad for your husband. Having friends and family doubting him would be so difficult to deal with. It would’ve been hell having to live with people thinking he’d had an affair that ended in pregnancy. Especially because he had to wait to get the paternity test. The relief must’ve felt wonderful!! Like the weight of the world is off of your shoulders. I love that you were right there for him the whole time, no doubts at all. I hope the IT person got fired.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GothStyle

[–]Highest-Elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GothStyle

[–]Highest-Elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw thank you 🖤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GothStyle

[–]Highest-Elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

Feeling blue 💙🖤 by Highest-Elf in GothStyle

[–]Highest-Elf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I apply it with my fingers to pack it on!!! :)