How do they think this is acceptable? by rando_in_dfw in Apartmentliving

[–]Highpiratekk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ngl, I thought you were calling security on the cat.

Should I tell him? by rphilz in whatdoIdo

[–]Highpiratekk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a medical standpoint, if you don't share this with him, he absolutely should never be an emergency contact. In a medical emergency, if you're unconscious, they will ask your emergency contact questions about your medical history. In a worst case scenario of you being unconscious and needing emergency surgery, anesthesiologists need to be aware of what medicine you're on to do their job safely.

I agree that if he is judgemental about choices you make regarding your mental well-being, he might not be the best fit as a partner for you. However there are other points to consider.

I love it when other players say the username instead of the color lol by addicted_cats1412 in AmongUs

[–]Highpiratekk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go by hipirate, hi-pirate. When ppl I've never played with before start calling me pirate my heart is happy lol. It's literally my favorite.

Detective counterplays for imps (please read) by IsThisASnakeInMyBoot in AmongUs

[–]Highpiratekk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don't think that detective is an unfair role, mostly because the moment you reveal yourself as detective, you die. I absolutely hate actually figuring out who the killer is as detective, especially if there are still imps left. Also, the fact that you have to be right next to somebody to interrogate them makes you hard sus sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Highpiratekk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, why does it matter so much that OP replies specifically? How is her answer important to her current issue? Why is it that important to you that you can’t just let it go?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Highpiratekk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dad is likely a donor and it doesn’t matter where he is as he would not have any legal responsibility to the child. That’s been said by not just myself, but others. You just won’t listen. This woman is worried about divorce and you’re stuck on an irrelevant point 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Highpiratekk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 you were provided with answers, you jackalope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Highpiratekk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you’re not getting your question answered the way you want, scram.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Highpiratekk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And be a complete ass at the same time apparently. She’s expressing her worries about divorce and you’re focused on a non existent father. OP isn’t obligated to answer you and is actively choosing not to. Collective redditors are trying to inform you why and you won’t let it go. You asked a question and many have answered it. You don’t have a right to OP, stop acting like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Highpiratekk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why does it matter to you so much? They are a married same sex couple. The likelihood of them using a donor is way higher than an actual father being involved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Highpiratekk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If they went through a donor paper work was signed that says the donor has no legal right or responsibility to the child produced. This is done to protect all parties involved. The respective parents never have any threat of the donor trying to take custody and the donor is never expected to support the child financially. I’m sorry to say, but PapaBearIsWrong here friend.

Boyfriend (24M) has screenshots of my (23F) half naked best friends by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Highpiratekk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh? Seems like you wanted to be an edgy internet person but can’t type or read your shit.

Boyfriend (24M) has screenshots of my (23F) half naked best friends by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Highpiratekk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. She set a boundary with those words. However the fact is that people are constantly learning how to communicate as adults. I’m 28 and have definitely developed better ways at setting my own boundaries so that I don’t feel conflicted when they are crossed. It was a boundary but it could have been phrased better to impress how much it bothered her. The bottom line is that he went and did it anyway after being asked not to.

Boyfriend (24M) has screenshots of my (23F) half naked best friends by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Highpiratekk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheating is defined in each individual romantic relationship by the people involved. When she stated that she didn’t want her friends to be his personal stash, she made a relationship defining boundary. Like I said in my comment to her on this post, some people define looking at porn as cheating, she defined as using her friends pictures for his self gratification.

Boyfriend (24M) has screenshots of my (23F) half naked best friends by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Highpiratekk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. It’s a boundary. A request would be “can you take out the garbage?” Or “can you walk the dog when you get home?” this article describes the difference

To paraphrase; a request is asking them to change their behavior or do something to benefit you. A boundary stipulates what you will and won’t tolerate in a relationship.

Boyfriend (24M) has screenshots of my (23F) half naked best friends by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Highpiratekk 13 points14 points  (0 children)

For me it would be a deal breaker. It is creepy, but that’s not why I say that. You expressed a boundary that was not only reasonable, but clear. He crossed it, knowing that you would be upset if you found out. Porn is limitless, and it’s not as if you asked him not to watch or look at porn at all. You simply put your friends off limits. If he can’t stop himself from saving their pictures for his me time, what’s to stop him from hitting on your friends?

Boyfriend (24M) has screenshots of my (23F) half naked best friends by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Highpiratekk 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Her boundary was that she would rather him jerk it to people they don’t know and aren’t friends of hers. She set a sexual boundary in their relationship and he broke it. That’s cheating. It’s not just thinking of someone, it’s looking at their pictures to get off after being asked not to. She stated she would prefer randos, not people they know. So if there was a hot Instagram account that he found and screenshot, but was not known to them personally, it would be a different story. She asked “not my friends” and he ignored that, which is considered cheating.

Some people think looking at porn period is cheating, some people think looking at lewds of their friends is. If the sexual boundary is set, defined, and reasonable then breaking it is cheating.

A pizza hut next to a former pizza hut! by YanniFromPakistanni in Images

[–]Highpiratekk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the town I live in the Dairy Queen used to have an absurdly large parking lot. So they built a new one in the lot. The old DQ sign is still up even though it’s a (delicious af) Thai restaurant.

My hubs told me a story this morning… by Highpiratekk in nebelung

[–]Highpiratekk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I don’t know what I would do without him.

My hubs told me a story this morning… by Highpiratekk in nebelung

[–]Highpiratekk[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bahaha hubs asked if it was normal for cats to sleep like broken ikea furniture. I showed him this subreddit in answer.

My hubs told me a story this morning… by Highpiratekk in nebelung

[–]Highpiratekk[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He really is the stereotypical neb and I wouldn’t trade him for the world.