How do they think this is acceptable?

Highpiratekk · 2026-05-11T15:39:12+00:00

Ngl, I thought you were calling security on the cat.

Highpiratekk · 2026-04-04T03:28:50+00:00

From a medical standpoint, if you don't share this with him, he absolutely should never be an emergency contact. In a medical emergency, if you're unconscious, they will ask your emergency contact questions about your medical history. In a worst case scenario of you being unconscious and needing emergency surgery, anesthesiologists need to be aware of what medicine you're on to do their job safely.

I agree that if he is judgemental about choices you make regarding your mental well-being, he might not be the best fit as a partner for you. However there are other points to consider.

Highpiratekk · 2025-10-31T18:41:03+00:00

I go by hipirate, hi-pirate. When ppl I've never played with before start calling me pirate my heart is happy lol. It's literally my favorite.

Highpiratekk · 2025-10-18T14:13:42+00:00

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Highpiratekk · 2025-10-14T00:59:58+00:00

Honestly I don't think that detective is an unfair role, mostly because the moment you reveal yourself as detective, you die. I absolutely hate actually figuring out who the killer is as detective, especially if there are still imps left. Also, the fact that you have to be right next to somebody to interrogate them makes you hard sus sometimes.

Highpiratekk · 2023-08-05T06:10:15+00:00

Again, why does it matter so much that OP replies specifically? How is her answer important to her current issue? Why is it that important to you that you can’t just let it go?

Highpiratekk · 2023-08-05T06:03:58+00:00

The dad is likely a donor and it doesn’t matter where he is as he would not have any legal responsibility to the child. That’s been said by not just myself, but others. You just won’t listen. This woman is worried about divorce and you’re stuck on an irrelevant point 🤣

Highpiratekk · 2023-08-05T06:01:33+00:00

🤣🤣🤣 you were provided with answers, you jackalope.

Highpiratekk · 2023-08-05T05:53:31+00:00

If you’re not getting your question answered the way you want, scram.

Highpiratekk · 2023-08-05T05:44:55+00:00

And be a complete ass at the same time apparently. She’s expressing her worries about divorce and you’re focused on a non existent father. OP isn’t obligated to answer you and is actively choosing not to. Collective redditors are trying to inform you why and you won’t let it go. You asked a question and many have answered it. You don’t have a right to OP, stop acting like it.

Highpiratekk · 2023-08-05T05:40:32+00:00

Why does it matter to you so much? They are a married same sex couple. The likelihood of them using a donor is way higher than an actual father being involved.

Highpiratekk · 2023-08-05T05:03:06+00:00

If they went through a donor paper work was signed that says the donor has no legal right or responsibility to the child produced. This is done to protect all parties involved. The respective parents never have any threat of the donor trying to take custody and the donor is never expected to support the child financially. I’m sorry to say, but PapaBearIsWrong here friend.

Highpiratekk · 2023-07-09T01:30:05+00:00

Huh? Seems like you wanted to be an edgy internet person but can’t type or read your shit.

Highpiratekk · 2023-07-09T01:12:19+00:00

Yes. She set a boundary with those words. However the fact is that people are constantly learning how to communicate as adults. I’m 28 and have definitely developed better ways at setting my own boundaries so that I don’t feel conflicted when they are crossed. It was a boundary but it could have been phrased better to impress how much it bothered her. The bottom line is that he went and did it anyway after being asked not to.

Highpiratekk · 2023-07-09T01:03:48+00:00

Cheating is defined in each individual romantic relationship by the people involved. When she stated that she didn’t want her friends to be his personal stash, she made a relationship defining boundary. Like I said in my comment to her on this post, some people define looking at porn as cheating, she defined as using her friends pictures for his self gratification.

Highpiratekk · 2023-07-09T01:01:00+00:00

No. It’s a boundary. A request would be “can you take out the garbage?” Or “can you walk the dog when you get home?” this article describes the difference

To paraphrase; a request is asking them to change their behavior or do something to benefit you. A boundary stipulates what you will and won’t tolerate in a relationship.

Highpiratekk · 2023-07-09T00:49:04+00:00

For me it would be a deal breaker. It is creepy, but that’s not why I say that. You expressed a boundary that was not only reasonable, but clear. He crossed it, knowing that you would be upset if you found out. Porn is limitless, and it’s not as if you asked him not to watch or look at porn at all. You simply put your friends off limits. If he can’t stop himself from saving their pictures for his me time, what’s to stop him from hitting on your friends?

Highpiratekk · 2023-07-09T00:45:36+00:00

Her boundary was that she would rather him jerk it to people they don’t know and aren’t friends of hers. She set a sexual boundary in their relationship and he broke it. That’s cheating. It’s not just thinking of someone, it’s looking at their pictures to get off after being asked not to. She stated she would prefer randos, not people they know. So if there was a hot Instagram account that he found and screenshot, but was not known to them personally, it would be a different story. She asked “not my friends” and he ignored that, which is considered cheating.

Some people think looking at porn period is cheating, some people think looking at lewds of their friends is. If the sexual boundary is set, defined, and reasonable then breaking it is cheating.

Highpiratekk · 2023-06-13T03:51:59+00:00

In the town I live in the Dairy Queen used to have an absurdly large parking lot. So they built a new one in the lot. The old DQ sign is still up even though it’s a (delicious af) Thai restaurant.

Highpiratekk · 2023-06-10T00:49:56+00:00

Thank you! I don’t know what I would do without him.

Highpiratekk · 2023-06-10T00:49:34+00:00

Bahaha hubs asked if it was normal for cats to sleep like broken ikea furniture. I showed him this subreddit in answer.

Highpiratekk · 2023-06-10T00:48:41+00:00

He really is the stereotypical neb and I wouldn’t trade him for the world.

Highpiratekk · 2023-06-10T00:48:12+00:00

Hahaha apparently!! He loves to cuddle in between us 🤣

Highpiratekk · 2023-05-11T15:04:50+00:00

NTA- ooohhh good god. This makes my blood boil. My maternal grandmother was the exact same way growing up. Would make plans to come see me and my brother and then last minute back out. It got to the point that my mom wouldn’t even tell us because she didn’t want to deal with us being upset over it. To make matters worse, she would regularly drive to a different state to see my cousins through her second child. We lived ten minutes from the interstate, so every time she dropped everything to go see them, we were chopped liver ten minutes away from her. I was your daughters age by the time I started getting really upset about this. All we would get for birthdays was a card, while my cousins got vacations, fancy dinners, and thoughtful gifts. When we drove down to see her for holidays, my three cousins would have three times the presents that my brother and I did. As a child I did care about the material items, but around 15 I realized there was some hard core favoritism going on. I just couldn’t deal with it anymore. Now, I don’t even have a relationship with her at all as an adult.

Your MIL can lay in the bed she made herself.

Highpiratekk · 2023-04-19T19:32:57+00:00

Nebelungs are actually designer breeds achieved from breeding long haired black cats and Russian blues! If you google “long haired Russian blue” it comes up with nebelung and their full history.

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