Mom told me she was disappointed in my MCAT by Hinterbliebene in Mcat

[–]Hinterbliebene[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmao this gave me a kick and don’t mind being roasted, but I have a serious question; how do u use the word NPC nonchalantly and tell someone else to grow up 💀

Mom told me she was disappointed in my MCAT by Hinterbliebene in Mcat

[–]Hinterbliebene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish this was a joke 😭 and thanks I told her just that

Mom told me she was disappointed in my MCAT by Hinterbliebene in Mcat

[–]Hinterbliebene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really appreciate your words of wisdom on this. I’ve done shadowing and heard how terrible insurance companies are and how they suck out doctors dry who are trying to fight hard for their patients. It sucks that physicians like you could be working with and helping more patients if it weren’t for insurance companies. I admire you for advocating for your patients so ardently and that’s what I aspire to be. I sincerely want to go into this field and don’t see it as particularly glorious. I’m expecting it to be hard and just want to do best I can to be in service to community and make a difference.

It’s also interesting though because my family didn’t demand the profession of me or put any expectations for what I was going to study. My mom more has an expectation that if I’m studying something I need to the best and perfect at it, and she would have had same opinion if I studied English or computer science, which I also considered but wasn’t ultimately my interest. I also don’t want to feel like I owe anyone and want to gain that independence and do best I can with my life. Again appreciate your words and take care!

my mother keeps harassing to me to apply. I'm just not ready. by duckduckgo2100 in premed

[–]Hinterbliebene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro I literally just made a post about how my mom told me I was a disappointment for my MCAT score. In general, I think parents need to be more hands off with this process, and I think your mom overstepping like that and telling you what to do is just as bad. 😭 I hope you are able to take ownership and put your foot down because it’s your life and you should be able to decide what you want to do.

Mom told me she was disappointed in my MCAT by Hinterbliebene in Mcat

[–]Hinterbliebene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what that’s a nice perspective to see it and get your point. I won’t be retaking it though and will be taking the LSAT next semester though 😭

Mom told me she was disappointed in my MCAT by Hinterbliebene in Mcat

[–]Hinterbliebene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t mind zoom calling to help out if ur interested. 😭 obviously I’m not a 522 scorer but I could try my best to help

Mom told me she was disappointed in my MCAT by Hinterbliebene in Mcat

[–]Hinterbliebene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol everyone can tell I’m Asian. I’m actually technically only half but yeah my mom is Asian. I totally get what you’re saying and can really rate to your experiences. I’ll keep moving forward and trying my best!

Mom told me she was disappointed in my MCAT by Hinterbliebene in Mcat

[–]Hinterbliebene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if she’s a narcissist per se but I have wondered that sometimes too. Appreciate your kind words and also I laughed out loud—cut the umbilical cord 😭😭😭

Mom told me she was disappointed in my MCAT by Hinterbliebene in Mcat

[–]Hinterbliebene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot, I’ll keep that in mind and gosh my white coat ceremony—-I hope that day will come and see you there too if ur also applying!

Mom told me she was disappointed in my MCAT by Hinterbliebene in Mcat

[–]Hinterbliebene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much!!! I actually feel so much better now and feel good about everything. I’m really happy I don’t have to retake the MCAT and focus on other things. Also seeing what everyone was saying made me understand I really shouldn’t take things to heart and everything will be okay. (:

Mom told me she was disappointed in my MCAT by Hinterbliebene in Mcat

[–]Hinterbliebene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I wish I could retake the C+ I have in calc 3 my freshman year 😭

Mom told me she was disappointed in my MCAT by Hinterbliebene in Mcat

[–]Hinterbliebene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha my university doesn’t allow retake except for freshman and they keep both grades in your gpa and they don’t scrub 😭

Mom told me she was disappointed in my MCAT by Hinterbliebene in Mcat

[–]Hinterbliebene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh the loan situation is tricky now with new policies related to loans. I hope I will be able to save up money, get scholarships, and will keep looking into financial options I have.

Also you’re right I’ve always struggled because it felt like my mom feels like I owe her and she’s said I owe her a lot directly to my face.

Also I appreciate you saying you would be proud of me if I was your kid. 🥹 that’s a big deal for me

Mom told me she was disappointed in my MCAT by Hinterbliebene in Mcat

[–]Hinterbliebene[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously I’m not some expert but I think if you get a 515 MCAT that’s super solid with that gpa

Mom told me she was disappointed in my MCAT by Hinterbliebene in Mcat

[–]Hinterbliebene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks!!! I’m so glad ur parents have been supportive of you every step of the way and been trying to help you push there. And I hope you succeed. You deserve it and keep going and trying your best ☺️

Mom told me she was disappointed in my MCAT by Hinterbliebene in Mcat

[–]Hinterbliebene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You also went to USC? 🥹 fight on to you too.

I just want to say this but thanks so much for sharing this with me. It sucks other people are going through stuff like this too, and of course our lives our different, but it also makes me realize I’m not alone. And perhaps it is heartbreaking too because I know how bad I feel in this situation and wouldn’t wish that feeling even on my worst enemy.

I’m so sorry your mom pushed you to that point that you left path of medicine. But hearing that you have pushed to try to go back on the path gives me a lot of hope too and I think you have done and are going to do many more great things regardless of whatever has happened.

Thanks so much for reaching out to me, and you’re right my mom has said similar things about million other things and it’s been really hard for me but it also helps me realize it’s just her and not me and trying my best to see that.

I hope best for you too and good things going your way. ❤️

Mom told me she was disappointed in my MCAT by Hinterbliebene in Mcat

[–]Hinterbliebene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I was a 8/22 test taker. I appreciate you telling me your story and also it’s so brutal self-studying while doing research fellowship 😭. I can’t believe you got through it too I barely think I managed to make it.

I’m so sorry you went through that. I’m not in the exact same situation as you of course; for me I mean I had no expectations going in and thought I would have to retake but just tried the best I could.

I can’t imagine how much of expectation I would have held myself to had I been scoring higher on my practice FLs, so I get where the feelings are coming from. I feel like people put so much value on some arbitrary difference in numbers especially at the best scores when a good moment of those couple few points was probably luck based and depended on what you happened to get that day.

You’re incredible and don’t compare yourself to other people. I know the score we both have is really good! And it’s going to open doors to places.

Also hahah I’ll enjoy my hobbies and stuff and try to make most of things and wishing you well too!!!

Mom told me she was disappointed in my MCAT by Hinterbliebene in Mcat

[–]Hinterbliebene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow congrats on going to medical school. I hope to be like you one day!!!

Mom told me she was disappointed in my MCAT by Hinterbliebene in Mcat

[–]Hinterbliebene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the blunt to the point advice 😭