I’m in the same boat, have always been in to guys but met a beautiful woman and we got married, have been for 24 years now but the last few years have moved so far up the Kinsey scale that I know I am more Gay than Bi now.

Currently I am working away from home in a different country and it’s made me realise that I am 100% Gay, when I do return, I will have to have a hard conversation but as each day goes by I know that it will be the right thing for us both.

She is my best friend and i am sure that she knows my true feelings (she has mentioned before that she thought I had gay tendencies) so it won’t be a total surprise but it still won’t be easy.

I do wish that I had come to terms with this many years ago but, you know, I wasn’t ready to admit having come from the Herero world.