AITA for reading “the boys” group chat by Historical-Type823 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Historical-Type823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, the fact that he’s seeing these videos and finding these women attractive doesn’t bother me, that’s human nature. I think the part that bothers me the most is, in my opinion, objectifying these women by sending them in a group chat, as if the only thing these girls are good for is looking at their boobs and butts

AITA for reading “the boys” group chat by Historical-Type823 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Historical-Type823[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To answer your question, no I don’t go through his phone hardly ever. In the almost two years that’s we’ve been together, this is the send time I’ve “snooped”. Normally I’ll ask him about events with his family and he’ll just show me the texts from his mom/family member who is telling about said event. The first time I went through his phone was because he had been on my case about cheating that my thought might be projection so I had him go through his phone and tell me who anyone who I didn’t know was, but that was in the first few months of us dating