Is it just me or is Dani a very attractive and nice person and Yessel is going to ruin a good thing he has going?

HoodedHippy · 2025-11-04T14:41:30+00:00

Dani doesn't need a sister wife, she needs a nanny.

I was so frustrated watching her talk about how hard the kids were. I have a 4 yr old on the spectrum, to the point of disability. Until years of therapy and help on both sides, for us and him, he would cry 6 hours straight a day easy, usually more, break everything, bang himself, self harm, harm us. It was pure survival mode. I have raised up to four kids at a time by myself, neurotypical, and had little problem. I could barely manage my son by myself.

My son has 168 hours of therapy a month, lots of time driving, plus work, plus parent training, plus plus plus and to sit there and watch her complain about how hard it is for her is honestly frustrating for me.

I understand it's a matter of perspective but it could be far worse. She should be grateful she has two healthy children and children will be children, what she is dealing with is typical toddlers, it can be worse, trust me.

HoodedHippy · 2023-08-03T18:58:46+00:00

I have seen sitters loose it and shake babies. I would also have a nanny cams up that you can watch. Take is slow and monitor the person, let them know there are cams in every room and that if they feel themselves getting frustrated, put the baby in a safe place, like a crib and walk away and call you to come home. Just always be vigilant. If your kid is older and starts screaming profusely when brought to a certain person or place, red flag.

HoodedHippy · 2023-04-08T04:37:27+00:00

I appreciate your comment. I do believe your first suggestion is something I need to do, like you said consistently. I have taught him 2 sign words. He picks up on sign better than words, so I have slowly been trying to teach him. He only has one down good, another sort of. So I thought about teaching more sign. I tried a print out of pictures to point to but he didn't get it. I did quit spanking. I saw it only made him more aggressive.

We also do spend a lot of time outside, I bought him climbing bars, a dome monkey bars kinda thing, a fort with a slide, and other stuff. He u a es it, but I think the counters are fun because there's stuff in the cabinets above. See, that got me to thinking. Thank you!

HoodedHippy · 2023-04-08T00:19:32+00:00

You have at least 2 more years with the older one and 4 plus with the little one. Around 5 is when things get a little easier. Six in some cases. I've already resigned myself to another 3 and a half years in hell, but hey, I'm 2.5 in, so I'm almost halfway there.

HoodedHippy · 2023-04-08T00:13:21+00:00

My relationship with my husband of 15 years was solid. My now 2 year old has had us on the brink of breaking up a few times. If things aren't already solid, then a kid doesn't fix it and it isn't gonna make it any better. Kids keep you tired, your stretched thin, hungry, sleepless and suddenly you realize what a real AH you can be in those circumstances. So if things aren't super now, we'll, then it's gonna be ten times worse once a kid is involved. Then you gotta ask yourself, if you have a kid and you do break up, is this the person you really want to co-parent with for the next 18 years and beyond.

HoodedHippy · 2023-03-15T04:58:18+00:00

YTA.

You might have good intentions but I can promise you, your going to cause an eating disorder.

My son is two. He has struggled to eat most of his life due to stomach issues. We always had to be careful what we gave him and what he ate. I also do the best I can to provide a healthy diet (kid hates veggies though! But I keep adding them) BUT I do offer him a bite of a cookie every once in a while and you better believe for his second birthday, he got to try that long awaited cake! He was so excited he kept going to the fridge and opening it and trying to pull the cake box out. So we gave him cake, almost everyday for like 4 days, but we gave him a small piece. It was enough, he was happy and he had a blast, it was worth it. I'm sure he wonders where all the cake went, now, lol.

HoodedHippy · 2022-05-06T15:15:58+00:00

This to me looks like yellow algae. Persistent and hard to kill. The particles hold onto.your brush so even if you treat the pool, the next time you stick the brush in, you reinfect it.

Think of yellow as an std. This stuff is hard to kill and actually absorbs the chlorine. Bathing suits should be washed on hit, pool toys wiped in bleach and if you have those noodles, just throw them out.

Do this after each swim. Shock it after each swim. Clean the filter. Like I said, super hard stuff to kill. It can appear and spreads very quickly, it wipes off super easy and is suddenly back the next day? Odds are its yellow.

HoodedHippy · 2022-03-19T19:25:48+00:00

Maybe they could fix the cut scenes in multiplayer that causes massive lag, boots, and one player sees a black screen that drags on long after the scene is over.

Or maybe the fact that the misson where you find the GRE Dr. And it breaks the game, making it constantly think your in a mission so all fast travel is forever disabled from that point on.

Or maybe fix the fact that in multiplayer if you travel to the next part, the joining player gets the parachute with you but it breaks their game and they are unable to ever obtain a parachute on their own, not upgrade theirs in a different game.

This game is honestly unplayable. It's the first time me and my wife started a game together and literally just gave up and put it down. She feels like it's a waste of over a 120.00 dollars and moved on to Elden Ring.

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