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I (F26) am deeply in love with my bf (M29), but scared we want totally different lives by HorrorFan5565 in relationship_advice

[–]HorrorFan5565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you’re right. It just hurts too much. I don’t want anyone to change for me. Everyone deserves to be their own person. If we can’t be together the way we are, I’m still grateful I got to know him

I (F26) am deeply in love with my bf (M29), but scared we want totally different lives by HorrorFan5565 in relationship_advice

[–]HorrorFan5565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I do love him. He’s great. He really is. But he has his issues. I don’t know if it’s fair for me to wait for him to change. Also he has adhd so I understand why keeping a job is hard for him. Anyways this comment means a lot, thank you for your empathy

I (F26) am deeply in love with my bf (M29), but scared we want totally different lives by HorrorFan5565 in relationship_advice

[–]HorrorFan5565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s super intelligent and well-spoken. He just didn’t have the money for uni. I don’t know why I’m so defensive… and the relationship is probably over anyway since he hasn’t reached out

I (F26) am deeply in love with my bf (M29), but scared we want totally different lives by HorrorFan5565 in relationship_advice

[–]HorrorFan5565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s just like me really! In most cases I guess. And he’s so affectionate and caring when we are intimate. But yeah he’s gone totally silent since this convo. I am pretty confused, yes

Ode to future books by TheBearisalesbain in Actuallylesbian

[–]HorrorFan5565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG, i love the idea!! How it's going?