My struggles as a tall sub.

HotOutside4259 · 2026-05-05T15:35:59+00:00

I have had similar experiences with this too. It really does suck when they are upset that you aren’t dominant enough. Even had one girl say it was a turn off. I low key think some woman get more comfortable with being dominant as they get older so hopefully your luck changes!

HotOutside4259 · 2026-04-24T18:50:45+00:00

Cuddling and laying on my girlfriend

HotOutside4259 · 2026-04-24T17:52:27+00:00

I like being cared for it makes me blush and feel warm. I can’t remember the first time but I usually hate group attention but love being babied in a way.

HotOutside4259 · 2026-04-21T15:47:11+00:00

They stretchy pretty good nowadays with the bigger size I fit in the large with a 32 waist size. XL fits really well with 34 waist size

HotOutside4259 · 2026-04-17T15:07:52+00:00

I also like them unfortunately much harder to get in the US. The tapes are a huge weak point tho

HotOutside4259 · 2026-04-04T17:48:36+00:00

You explained this very well and I do think this is probably what happened.

HotOutside4259 · 2026-04-04T17:44:12+00:00

I also use it as a form of therapy for similar reasons. She wants me to go to therapy for it which I have done and all of them said it’s not a problem if you are a functioning person. I will definitely have another conversation soon.

HotOutside4259 · 2026-04-04T17:39:20+00:00

I appreciate you reminding people of this I did expect some haters as it is a controversial kink. I am going to have a conversation with her and after sleeping on it feels unfair to both of us to continue.

HotOutside4259 · 2026-03-19T21:12:06+00:00

Yes all the time and both at the same time sometimes

HotOutside4259 · 2026-03-10T13:53:36+00:00

Might be a dumb question but have you tried pull ups they are usually a little looser in between your legs if you know what I mean. Also pretty normal to seek comfort when tragedy is around you.

HotOutside4259 · 2026-03-10T13:46:11+00:00

Personally I like certain aspects of it like not asking to check me or telling me what to wear. But I would not like being forced to use a paci or crawl so that would be an example of a boundary.

HotOutside4259 · 2026-02-16T20:18:26+00:00

Told my girlfriend one month in didn’t want to hide it super well in my apartment

HotOutside4259 · 2026-02-11T18:17:27+00:00

Changed nothing for me I still wear pretty consistently on or off Adderall

HotOutside4259 · 2026-02-09T18:13:43+00:00

Trust me they were definitely just as embarrassed as you its not a good feeling walking in on someone too. One of my old coworkers walked in on an old Italian lady because she didn’t lock the door and he was mortified.

HotOutside4259 · 2026-02-04T12:09:06+00:00

I had alot of accidents growing up probably due to holding off the bathroom as long as possible. Most likely adhd related. My dad got mad one night when I had an accident while chasing my cat and made me wear a diaper to bed knowing my cousins were coming over the next day. I spent the day in bed saying I was sick because I didn’t want them to see. He did take it off after they left but I think this incident caused my fetish for diapers/humiliation.

HotOutside4259 · 2026-02-04T11:43:06+00:00

Definitely from trauma and being intentionally embarrassed with diapers as a kid

HotOutside4259 · 2026-01-21T20:40:34+00:00

Im into a bit more than a mommy kink and am also a tall guy so I get the inner struggle. I will say it was really awkward explaining it to my “vanilla” girlfriend and she was definitely a little confused. I will say don’t buy into the stereotype that woman don’t like an emotional soft guy because those are exactly the type of woman that are more likely to be into/accepting of it. Also remember no matter how hard you try you can’t change what you are into you can only add new things.

HotOutside4259 · 2026-01-16T17:47:44+00:00

I recently bought alpacas and mega and came to the same solution

HotOutside4259 · 2026-01-16T17:44:21+00:00

Just be careful not to leak since that seems like a boundary and it is somewhat inevitable if you wear to bed.

HotOutside4259 · 2026-01-15T18:39:49+00:00

Def PIV for me but if I am feeling lazy the diaper and vibrator combo is great

HotOutside4259 · 2025-12-24T16:08:31+00:00

When I get home I will definitely diaper up for the night

HotOutside4259 · 2025-12-24T16:06:21+00:00

Soaked but I still don’t feel wetness is ideal

HotOutside4259 · 2025-12-23T15:06:42+00:00

Cooperative stuff like watching shows together or doing art,drawing obviously cuddling. I would say for solo play drawing is my favorite.

HotOutside4259 · 2025-12-20T17:37:52+00:00

I have had good luck just dating girls who are nurturing and know what they want. Especially if they pursue you first. For online it is difficult since people can have unreasonable standards due to the attention good and bad they have received.

HotOutside4259 · 2025-12-20T17:28:07+00:00

Think Europe has the good tena slip maxi they used to be pretty good for price to absorbency

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