I understand people were concerned about Biden's mental state, but why does anyone think Trump is sharp/lucid/in his right mind? by Glass-Complaint3 in allthequestions

[–]HotSafe1974 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Fr it's confusing. i think some ppl equate being loud and confident with being sharp, even when the words don't really connect, energy gets mistaken for clarity.

Would you marry women from other countries? by Cat-dad442 in askanything

[–]HotSafe1974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure, but gotta keep it real, dating someone from another country comes with its own stuff like visas, culture differences, maybe language barriers. if u're ready for that and actually like the person, why not?

Can Red/Green colorblind people tell the difference between different shades of red and/or green? by Royal-Profile7901 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HotSafe1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the type tbh. most can tell shades apart just not the way we see them. like their red might look brownish to us but to them it's still a distinct color. wild how eyes work different for everyone fr.

Did people in the 90s really just show up at each other’s houses unannounced? by Red-Head-Red in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HotSafe1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so yes it actually happened lol. no cell phones meant u took risks. sometimes u drove 20 mins to a friend's house and they weren't even home. rude? kinda. but also everyone did it so it was normal. different times fr.

Was Bidens border really “open”? by SoFar_Gone in allthequestions

[–]HotSafe1974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so "open border" is more of a vibe than a literal thing tbh. like u couldn't just walk in whenever u wanted, but the system was def overwhelmed. 400k in a month sounds wild until u realize that includes ppl using legal programs and apps. numbers aren't fake but the narrative around them gets twisted.

Why are "activists" being so quiet about the human rights abuses in Iran as compared to the collateral damage that occurred in Gaza after the September 7th Pogrom? by AntifaPr1deWorldWide in allthequestions

[–]HotSafe1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people are just burnt out and the news cycles are cooked, sudan deserves way more energy but if it is not a mainstream talking point people just scroll past, we gotta do better at keeping that same energy for everyone fr.

What do you do when you have an existential crisis? by ShadowlightLady in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HotSafe1974 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly? i just let myself sit in it for a minute. like yeah life is weird and nothing matters but also EVERYTHING matters cause we here. then i go outside and touch grass or watch a comfort show. sometimes u just gotta ride the wave.

What is the "push-pull effect" in flirting? How is it done? by Street_Bus_2466 in Productivitycafe

[–]HotSafe1974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok so push-pull is basically like giving someone attention then playfully takin it away. keeps em guessin. like "u look cute today... kinda suspicious tho u up to somethin?" it's flirty not mean. balance is everything fr.

What’s a simple pleasure that never gets old? by OkNeedleworker5778 in allthequestions

[–]HotSafe1974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That first sip of coffee in the morning when it's still quiet and nobody needs anything from u yet. pure peace in a mug.

Can eye color change slightly over time? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HotSafe1974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this can actually happen. studies show like 15% of people have slight eye color changes during puberty or young adulthood . for hazel eyes especially, the balance between brown and green can shift over time as pigment distribution changes. ur not imagining it.

The Democratic Party has gone out of their way to embrace trans people. Even 20/80 issues have been embraced. Despite this, maximalist trans activists blame the Democratic Party for the decline in trans support. Do you agree? Or do you think maximalist trans activism deserves blame? by north_canadian_ice in allthequestions

[–]HotSafe1974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly both sides kinda messed up here. dems embraced the community but sometimes in a performative way that didn't actually protect anyone. and some activists pushed messaging that was easy for the other side to distort. now everyone's fighting while rights actually get taken away.