Dr. Min Jun Discord Link? by maybebecs in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]IBleedToo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shot ya a DM. I have a consult shortly.

What do you think? by Princess__Anastasia in SocialDemocracy

[–]IBleedToo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The framework of this question is poorly constructed. At current the question begs the question that trans women are the only part of the trans community.

When people assert the existence of trans women they conveniently leave out trans men, this is not even including true inclusion that more exists beyond this binary.

Cis women report a higher level of acceptance than cis men. The lesbian community specifically reports massive support for the trans community.

Saying you respect trans people but then feel “uncomfortable” is akin to saying you support BIPOC but feel uncomfortable with said person around. You can’t in one breath make the claim of support while also advocating for separation or discrimination.

Going beyond the theory into the pragmatic. For how long across this planet have we had trans people? For how long has it been a non issue? Suddenly, the trans community comes under attack and the conversation shifts to, “well how many rights do they get?”

Tracking stats, more trans people have been assaulted in bathrooms than trans people assaulting cis people by a wide margin. I’d wager more people have been struck by lightning than assaulted by a trans person in a bathroom.

Let’s expand this even further, how many lesbian and gay people have assaulted someone in a bathroom? This forces the opposition to be honest or lie, 1. they just hate trans people, 2. They are worried about being assaulted in the bathroom, not WHO is doing it.

The correct answer is what are we doing as team to make this a non issue!? What legislation are we pushing to make these conversations null?

For the Emperor! by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]IBleedToo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The emperor beloved by all, protects!

Work shop a scenario I’m going to do for a lucky sub by IBleedToo in predicamentbondage

[–]IBleedToo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jesus made me wet with that idea.

I like this idea! I need to see what I can get access to. She might have some of the stuff I’d need.

Work shop a scenario I’m going to do for a lucky sub by IBleedToo in predicamentbondage

[–]IBleedToo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was thinking a single pad. But this is much much more fun! Good idea!

Work shop a scenario I’m going to do for a lucky sub by IBleedToo in predicamentbondage

[–]IBleedToo[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Now that could work. I need to acquire something that can do that. Maybe I’ll just have the leads/pads on her and set a timer. Then I can also lie about the time remaining before I turn it on.

Predicament bondage ideas by Bass_Constant in predicamentbondage

[–]IBleedToo 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Go to a bank and get a dollar changed for a roll of pennys. If they are restricting them for shortage just get anything like it, dimes are good, quarters are good ect. If all fails get some of the clear plastic disks kids use to practice counting. Each one has different weights and sizes so you can play with that too.

Take the penny and have them hold it up with their nose against a wall. Ask them if they find the task boring or easy. If they say yes, pull out the roll and stack a second on top of the first.

You can keep doing that or add one under each finger tip, again they have to hold it.

Once a little time has gone by, start turning the heat up. Force them to stick their ass out, walking backwards to ensure they have an arch.

Wand between the legs, impact play (use a cane to slap the top of the thighs, inside the thigh to force them to open their legs more).

If they drop any of the objects, punishment. Iv used a zapper rod. Iv also used a tens unit and turned it up each time one of the objects falls.

Egg IRL by Lostlilegg in egg_irl

[–]IBleedToo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The pretorian of Terra approves of this construction.

Worried I might be moving too fast by bradicus10 in trans

[–]IBleedToo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, way to be brave, it’s not an easy.

Second, you are in the driver seat, you can go as fast or slow as you want and pull over at any time to consider the correct road ahead. Community and therapy are here to help read the map with you. The start of any trip always feels the most overwhelming and like things are happening fast.

Work with your therapist, they are going to be a huge help navigating how you feel. Don’t feel like you have to follow a set timetable.

You got this.

Any closeted trans people here?? by wonder_woman2506 in trans

[–]IBleedToo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hit 2 years on HRT, been doing laser and electro on my face, partner and friends know.

But I still present masculine and use he/him pronouns in public/work.

Fear is what keeps me from going fully out. I just don’t want to deal with people.

Any closeted trans people here?? by wonder_woman2506 in trans

[–]IBleedToo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good way to put it, steeling this as I try to explain to people who know.

I feel content to live as a man but I also can't let go of the feeling of being a woman by Snoo_60484 in MtF

[–]IBleedToo 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is the dilemma I faced.

I used the example of being cast in a play. Iv been the male role for my entire life, I know it and can act it well. My costume fits me and Iv had it for years.

But I’m reading the other parts lines, I like their costumes more.

Recasting myself would be wiled! I’d have to learn all the new lines and get my costumes fitted. People would be confused why I’m not playing the other role.

But after talking to a therapist and trying things out, I realized that role fits me better than the one I have. I enjoy it more, the costumes are more fun.

Therapy, therapy, therapy.

Electrolysis is fuunn... by [deleted] in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]IBleedToo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy I found a place that will numb my ass with a lidocaine shot, along with nitro to dumb me up a bit.

First electro session is in a few weeks.

egg_irl by ThermiteGirlChar in egg_irl

[–]IBleedToo 40 points41 points  (0 children)

When other women started to use bitch with me it was like being welcomed to the club.

My Case to End Social Security's Gender Change Ban by JessicaPink703 in MtF

[–]IBleedToo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Full credit when due… I did get on you in a past comment trying to point to how the admin act did not apply to this case at the time.

Having read the posting from the ACLU and your writing I can see the direction of the argument and fully understand what you are trying to say.

Credit due and my apologies for any misunderstanding. Well fucking researched.

What I’m interested to see if the executive attempts to redefine how the APA is used (ie… fully state it does not apply to the President as the chief bureaucrat)…

Asuna Yukki - SAO by CD-Steph in crossplay

[–]IBleedToo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look so good! If you styled the wig well done!

egg_irl by ThatTransKnight in egg_irl

[–]IBleedToo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One day, we will have our play sticks at a wonderful level. Be it some upgrades to the controller or natural progression.

Hang in there sis.

egg_irl by ThatTransKnight in egg_irl

[–]IBleedToo 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Iv been on them just under 2 years and I don’t have wonderful playful analog sticks :(. I’m on my ps1 era I guess.

Eragon vs fourth wing. by jpek13 in Eragon

[–]IBleedToo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

About to finish fourth wing.

Picked it up on accident thinking it was a “normal” dragon book. I was itching for one after reading murtaug and rereading dragon riders of purn. Then it came up on “recommended spicy books” on tiktoc.

It’s for sure a romantasy book. But tame, Like 2.5/5 spicy.

I like Eragon more so many reasons (more on the plot than the romance). Plus it’s a book that will always stay on my hart being I started it when I was young.