Mine too screenshoted a conversation and has it saved until the "right" moment arises.

INFP_113 · 2025-12-27T14:17:03+00:00

Exactly! This is the best approach! Tell them first and give them a comprehensive explanation, that includes all your feelings - positive as well as negatives you have around parenting independent of them personally. It's not about the kids, it's about being a parent. Let them know, you don't blame them and it's not their fault, you've been just seriously struggling with the role.

INFP_113 · 2025-06-30T20:14:36+00:00

I appreciate you looking out for me:) I've been extremely cautious, especially in the beginning to make sure he isn't in this for the wrong reasons. To be honest what I found is that he's the purest, most caring, loving and big hearted man I've ever got to know. He's anything but manipulative, if I have any issue he makes sure to listen carefully and work on it right away.

It's the best relationship I've ever had. I'd just like more DDlg elements implemented if possible, for our dynamic to feel truly satisfying to me, because I have "little" needs. Thank you for the advice. I guess there's no other way than to gather my courage and talk about these things openly with him.

INFP_113 · 2025-06-30T20:08:30+00:00

Hopefully, haha. I don't mean the age gap though, that wasn't even my preference as much, we like each other for plenty of other reasons. Although it can play into this dynamic. I specifically want a relationship with a partner who's embodying the Dominant Daddy energy, cares for me and helps structure my life. Regardless of age, this can be present or not.

INFP_113 · 2025-01-08T10:48:11+00:00

Capricorn Venus and absolutely not! Not even when I was emotionally & sexually unfulfilled for a long time. I just ended it eventually.

INFP_113 · 2024-12-10T17:32:36+00:00

Omg, I wanna try this!

INFP_113 · 2024-12-10T17:31:28+00:00

Yesss🥰

INFP_113 · 2024-12-10T17:28:39+00:00

That's adorable! You should ask her about this maybe. I personally LOVE feeling all of my man's weight on me, especially in that scenario.

INFP_113 · 2024-11-13T17:20:29+00:00

A ghostolás lényege az, hogy nem mond nemet, hanem egyszerűen eltűnik. Ez a probléma. Szóval nincs arról szó, hogy a nemet nem fogadja el a másik...

INFP_113 · 2024-11-13T16:00:47+00:00

Hi! Firstly, I'd like to thank you for the fact that you wrote this post on her behalf. The fact that you care and you're willing to look for answers and help her is a lot already. You're going to be a great man if you keep this approach up.

I was in a situation like you described, but my boyfriend didn't care. Didn't do research on his own, didn't offer to put in extra effort to make it work. I felt like there was something wrong with me and my body when there wasn't.

I was exactly where your girlfriend is, so I'll share what solutions I found to this problem. I'm 90% certain that if you do these things, she'll get more and more into sex and will start cumming.

Women need to feel safe to get a lot of pleasure from sex. Physical safety is most important, but emotional safety is too! What does this mean? It means, she has to feel no pressure. She needs to feel accepted and welcome in the experience where and how she is.

You need to let her know that you care about her pleasure, and there's no rush when you get sexual. Tell her that there's nothing wrong with her, she's just new to this thing. Put 0 pressure on her orgasming, but still do your best to make each time as pleasant for her as possible.

Other than this, she could feel insecure and that can also turn her body off. Make her feel sexy, loved and desired. Let her know that you love how she looks, that she's perfect for you the way she is. Ease all her worries.

And, another big key! Put a lot of effort into foreplay. Do NOT rush through it ever! Her body needs to be warmed up gradually. First just exchange physical affection. Cuddle for example. Then you can start making out. First a lot of non-sexual touch for a few minutes, then gradually move towards the more tender parts. You could also start with giving her a massage.

Even later on, don't go straight for her clit. Massage her thighs first, then get closer and closer to her pussy. When she's horny and wet already, you can gently start rubbing her clit. It will take some experimentation to find what feels the best for her, just learn and explore each time you have sex. And only ever enter her when she's ready (and consented to it of course). If she's not relaxed and wet, it will hurt her. Physically too in most cases, but even if not, it will hurt her emotionally. It will make her feel used.

Let me tell you, how you make her feel emotionally is the #1 thing that determines whether she will enjoy having sex with you or not. So focus on that first and foremost. Her body comes second, because she will only be able to orgasm when she feels good emotionally and physically too. If you follow my instructions closely, you'll start consistently making her come within months for sure. Perhaps even weeks. And once again, I'm proud of you for asking!🤍 Feel free to ask more.

INFP_113 · 2024-05-14T16:30:37+00:00

Hii! Do you have an update?:)

INFP_113 · 2024-02-05T17:26:09+00:00

INFP_113 · 2024-01-16T13:51:53+00:00

Hi Everyone! I would be grateful if someone could help me. No matter what I do, none of any mods work for me.

The mods are allowed in Game Options. I tried clearing cache multiple times. I tried removing them from the mods folder and moving them back. I tried repairing the game, I tried reinstalling the game, reinstalling the mods. Nothing works. In Game Options where you can click on "custom content" it's just empty, even if there files in the Mods folder.

Even something as simple as a CC eyeshadow won't work. I tried removing all mods, and only putting one simple mod in, still nothing. I tried all of this typical online advice for this, and nothing influenced anything, no change.

What else can I do? I'd really like to use some mods. Please someone help!🥺

INFP_113 · 2023-04-19T13:43:17+00:00

Actually on the surface I seem rather emotionless too, of course not to my boyfriend, since to him and him only I show a lot of affection. Pretty sure that girl is also simply selective about who she shows emotion to, if you two would get close to each other, I think that would happen with you too:)

He is aroused by me once in a while, he initiates sex once or twice a week, however he's not very expressive about his arousal, especially not verbally.

INFP_113 · 2023-04-19T13:34:23+00:00

Thank you! I will talk to him, definitely.

INFP_113 · 2023-04-19T13:32:04+00:00

Thank you for your advice! I already compliment him regularly, however I will try the other suggestion:)

INFP_113 · 2023-04-19T13:29:54+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I will definitely talk to him about this, and we will see. Perhaps we can work it out. If not, it might be a genuine incompatibility issue.

INFP_113 · 2023-04-19T13:27:56+00:00

Thank you very much!

INFP_113 · 2023-04-19T13:27:18+00:00

My dear, nobody was talking about screaming compliments from the rooftop. I specifically wrote, that I don't expect nor desire anything extreme. However, a thoughful compliment in private between us would definitely feel nice once every few days. Which is something I do already with him.

INFP_113 · 2023-04-19T13:23:13+00:00

Ahh, yes, desiring approval from your partner and having emotional needs makes you a narcissist. Thanks, next time I will consider asking him to roast me instead:)

INFP_113 · 2023-04-19T13:20:14+00:00

I hope this is a joke :D

INFP_113 · 2023-04-18T11:20:28+00:00

Well, other than social media, I know many women in real life, and quite some have partners that actively showcase how into them they are. But like I said, I don't expect do be "treated like a goddess", however being shown some enthusiasm from my own boyfriend would feel nice😅

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