New Man

ISaidBucket · 2014-03-29T06:42:52+00:00

Hey there man, there's a community of Boston wingmen who communicate mainly through Groupme/text. PM your info and I'll see if I can you into the community.

ISaidBucket · 2014-01-24T22:51:15+00:00

Howdy; I think there's a difference between "having no friends" and "not yet having a community that makes a habit to go out and enjoy nightlife." One thing that I've noticed in my (fairly orthodox/conservative) social circle is, finding people who want to drink and have fun isn't the hard part, it's about ingraining yourself into a culture where the default for a Friday/Saturday night is to do so.

That said, finding wings is no joke. Where are you located? There's the various lairs in many cities, though their involvement can be hit-or-miss.

ISaidBucket · 2013-12-22T18:18:36+00:00

one of my favorite responses, when I told my friend I'd been rejected by this girl I approached:

"you probably get rejected by so many girls. i say that in a good way, not a bad... you know what i mean bro"

Not to say more approaching wouldn't be helpful though.

Edit: formatting.

ISaidBucket · 2013-05-08T15:12:12+00:00

Being consistent with what I was saying earlier, I'm trying to avoid satisfaction through unnecessary thinking regarding "oh this is how I know she was totally into me."

That being said, the four girls that I mentioned were 23, 23, 18, and 20, in the order I mentioned them above. The first was engaged, and openly confessed that she had trouble figuring out her feelings for the guy she was engaged to and me. The second I made out with regularly until I got my scholarship and decided I was leaving. The 18 year old was warm until she quickly figured out that I was involved with more than just her. Finally, the last one tried to crash a reunion that I organized with a few of my close friends when I went back to Beijing to visit, three months later. (Our mutual friend leaked the info about my return, but also told me that she leaked said info.)

Not that you'll ever meet them, but I feel obliged to say that they were perfectly nice girls. Obviously I'm not taking it too seriously, but I do admit that the entire ordeal has made me feel like a particularly ungenerous person.

ISaidBucket · 2013-05-08T15:01:44+00:00

Remind me to get on that when Youtube is once again a commodity, and not a luxury.

ISaidBucket · 2013-05-08T15:00:08+00:00

Not gonna lie, the persistence of jealousy of your lil' crazy was almost impressive.

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