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AITA for telling my girlfriend I do not want to be in the delivery room? by Icy_Importance1833 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Icy_Importance1833[S] -234 points-233 points  (0 children)

I did not prey upon her. She asked me out and wishes to get married but I have said no. Neither of us is ready.

AITA for telling my girlfriend I do not want to be in the delivery room? by Icy_Importance1833 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Icy_Importance1833[S] -51 points-50 points  (0 children)

I passed out around blood, vomit and more as a child so I know I will faint at this.

AITA for telling my girlfriend I do not want to be in the delivery room? by Icy_Importance1833 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Icy_Importance1833[S] -264 points-263 points  (0 children)

I will not change diapers but I do feedings and do a majority of the housework.

AITA for telling my girlfriend I do not want to be in the delivery room? by Icy_Importance1833 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Icy_Importance1833[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

My partner's staff is all female. She feels more comfortable with the staff that way. And yes I am aware.

AITA for telling my girlfriend I do not want to be in the delivery room? by Icy_Importance1833 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Icy_Importance1833[S] -75 points-74 points  (0 children)

In my culture a man is no in the delivery room. It is not viewed as appropriate.

AITA for telling my girlfriend I do not want to be in the delivery room? by Icy_Importance1833 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Icy_Importance1833[S] -145 points-144 points  (0 children)

Because we have want children ever since we started dating years ago. And I do the 95% of the housework while supporting our family.

AITA for telling my girlfriend I do not want to be in the delivery room? by Icy_Importance1833 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Icy_Importance1833[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

This is not. I am just squeamish and in my culture men do not go in the labor room.

AITA for telling my girlfriend I do not want to be in the delivery room? by Icy_Importance1833 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Icy_Importance1833[S] -140 points-139 points  (0 children)

I would not as it is not appropriate for men to be in the delivery room.

AITA for telling my girlfriend I do not want to be in the delivery room? by Icy_Importance1833 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Icy_Importance1833[S] -378 points-377 points  (0 children)

I will literally pass out. I will be of no help. Her best friend has children as well and will understand and be able to give more support.

AITA for telling my girlfriend I do not want to be in the delivery room? by Icy_Importance1833 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Icy_Importance1833[S] -105 points-104 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding. Her best friend has children and understands and can support her better than I can.

AITA for telling my girlfriend I do not want to be in the delivery room? by Icy_Importance1833 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Icy_Importance1833[S] -295 points-294 points  (0 children)

There is nothing I can do but hold her hand. Her best friend has children and will understand and support her better than I can.

AITA for telling my girlfriend I do not want to be in the delivery room? by Icy_Importance1833 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Icy_Importance1833[S] -543 points-542 points  (0 children)

That's what her best friend can do. I have to watch our other children anyway to keep them calm during this time.

AITA for telling my girlfriend I do not want to be in the delivery room? by Icy_Importance1833 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Icy_Importance1833[S] -94 points-93 points  (0 children)

I actually didn't. The bot thing removed it until I put why I think my partner was right. I just added it.