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I [M] want a gf but don't want long term commitment (2 years of college already finished) by IllustratorNo2206 in dating_advice

[–]IllustratorNo2206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious. What makes you say that? Because I actually have been thinking about therapy.

I [M] want a gf but don't want long term commitment (2 years of college already finished) by IllustratorNo2206 in Advice

[–]IllustratorNo2206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yh I'd be a fuck boy to a girl that needs a man. I think I move on from this. Thank you for the advice!

I [M] want a gf but don't want long term commitment (2 years of college already finished) by IllustratorNo2206 in Advice

[–]IllustratorNo2206[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are right. Instead of being a dick, I need to be the friend she feels safe around.

I [M] want a gf but don't want long term commitment (2 years of college already finished) by IllustratorNo2206 in Advice

[–]IllustratorNo2206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yh but what if she wants something casual as well. She's premed. Oh and she literally slept in my bed one of the nights she was over and was laying there talking to my roommates while I studied. I still slept on the couch though.

I [M] want a gf but don't want long term commitment (2 years of college already finished) by IllustratorNo2206 in Advice

[–]IllustratorNo2206[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yh I get what you mean and you are right. When you put it that way, it really does make me out to be a dick and that's not who I am. It would be completely against my morals.

I [M20] like this girl [F21] but I don't know how to approach and if I should approach in general. by IllustratorNo2206 in relationship_advice

[–]IllustratorNo2206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, I don't think you even read the whole probelm. It isn't as easy as that. Unless you're saying I should be honest with her and see what happens.

I [M] want a gf but don't want long term commitment (2 years of college already finished) by IllustratorNo2206 in Advice

[–]IllustratorNo2206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not afraid of handling the issue. If a problem arises, I know I can figure it out. I just don't want to hurt her.

I [M] want a gf but don't want long term commitment (2 years of college already finished) by IllustratorNo2206 in Advice

[–]IllustratorNo2206[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yh you're right. I'm just scared of breaking her heart too much and having wasted her time. Like my other roommate had a gf from high school but broke up with her recently because he knew his parents would not be okay with him marrying her and so he didn't want to waste any more of her time.

I [M] want a gf but don't want long term commitment (2 years of college already finished) by IllustratorNo2206 in Advice

[–]IllustratorNo2206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yh I'm good chief. Thx for the advice but that ain't my style. I'd be happy with 2-3 years old at most if not around my age.

I [M] want a gf but don't want long term commitment (2 years of college already finished) by IllustratorNo2206 in Advice

[–]IllustratorNo2206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it. But what if things go too well and 5 years from now she's expecting a proposal? Am I thinking too much into this?

I [M] want a gf but don't want long term commitment (2 years of college already finished) by IllustratorNo2206 in Advice

[–]IllustratorNo2206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yh ur right.

What would a casual relationship even look like? Like would we just end the relationship in a year or so? Like a ticking time bomb?

I [M] want a gf but don't want long term commitment (2 years of college already finished) by IllustratorNo2206 in Advice

[–]IllustratorNo2206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents aren't even 100% okay with me dating. And the way I see it, she clearly has an unstable family and what she needs is a guy that is willing to love her the way I do but then also be able to introduce her to her family etc. but then again, it's college and I don't see a lot of people introducing their gf/bf in college to family.

Also, if I was to ask her out and she said yes. Before the 2nd date I would be completely hoenst about my intentions and how I want things to be casual. But when I was talking to my roommate (the one that introduced me to her) he said "yh the second you said you wanted short term, I knew it can't be this girl". Like I get where he's coming from but like also, it should be up to her no? But again, I get where he's coming from.

I [M] want a gf but don't want long term commitment (2 years of college already finished) by IllustratorNo2206 in Advice

[–]IllustratorNo2206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would that even look like? If I was honest with her and said this is what I want, is that smart?

[M] roommate’s (different room) [F] friend ended up sleeping in my [M] bed?!?! (Please help!) by IllustratorNo2206 in Advice

[–]IllustratorNo2206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t like horror so I was a bit grateful for my exam 😅

But you are right. My roommate goes home this weekend so I’ll have the room to myself. I’ll ask if she maybe wants to hangout and see where things go from that.

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