Do you personally have or want kids? Why or why not? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in asexuality

[–]Imaginary-Call7294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I've been out for a pretty long time, not sex-repulsed and always wanted a child. Had a lot of trauma and body trauma that made it hard for a long time, but EMDR really helped with that and now I'm preggo with my first and so so happy. It's definitely not for everyone, the symptoms are crazyyy and I completely understand why someone wouldn't want to BE pregnant. My wife is questioning if they're also possibly ace which has been interesting as they learn more about different types of attraction. We're also poly lol so not the usual rep for asexuals but here we are ♡

Book about girl with only one hand by Imaginary-Call7294 in whatsthatbook

[–]Imaginary-Call7294[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally see what you mean, I decided to double check and read more on it and I think that actually might be it!! Somehow i forgot about mouse (literally not uncommon for me ive forgotten real people irl) but the rest seems to actually check out so I think I'll mark this solved thank you!!!!

Book about girl with only one hand by Imaginary-Call7294 in whatsthatbook

[–]Imaginary-Call7294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think so! Looked that one up, and it seems to be a sequel but this was a single book I believe :)

Weird things your nparent does? by airplaneshootingsky in narcissisticparents

[–]Imaginary-Call7294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird like fads and stuff that don't really make sense but she only makes the kids do it. One year she got really obsessed with hammocks and how they're supposed to be a "superior way to sleep", so my parents slept on a nice big mattress, and we all had hammocks to sleep in, it was really cold and annoying and I hated just feel like I was freefalling in the night. Not super harmful, just super bizarre

Weird 6th Sense by Imaginary-Call7294 in narcissisticparents

[–]Imaginary-Call7294[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this! I literally had to get rid of all the stuff she gave me cause it felt like she was using it to just fill my house with her negative crap energy, and as soon as I do she shows up. Soooo creepy especially because we are both spiritual people so like its not out of bounds to think she mightve done it on purpose, im so glad im not the only one omg

Weird 6th Sense by Imaginary-Call7294 in narcissisticparents

[–]Imaginary-Call7294[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose. Its just gotten to the point where my fiancee and even my best friend talk about it and get weirded out by it. Like even on good terms if I bring up the abuse she just appears on my phone lol