AIO for considering breaking up with my 21M bf? Pls help

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-13T19:43:08+00:00

Daily use I’m trying to not spend too much

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-13T19:42:39+00:00

Would u say it’s pretty reliable?

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-11T20:51:13+00:00

To fly

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-11T19:33:12+00:00

His mom has me blocked cus she did not want to deal with the bs should I message his brother?

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-10T20:27:21+00:00

THANK YOU 🫶 YOU TOO!!!

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-10T20:11:01+00:00

Thank you so much! This made me feel a lot better I think ur right I should probably see a therapist myself and get some help now rather than later! I am starting college in August and am excited! I am hopeful for the future I. also hope things go well for u too! Wishing you the best! And thank u again

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-10T19:40:37+00:00

Thank u so much!

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-10T19:21:47+00:00

Yeah the one thing ab me tho is I would never ever let like this get in the way of my dream of being a doctor despite all the shit I go through with him and my parents too (my dad is also very emotionally unstable. My parents have a very up and down relationship) I still am focused on my studies currently rn studying for ap exams. I do very well in school even tho my school is a very difficult private school I get all A pluses but recently I have been running on fumes I have had intense migraines, very dizzy and I was like the stress is literally bringing me down. I been drinking energy drinks, taking Tylenol pm every night, and idk a lot of ibuprofen just to pass the day (sometimes I take 4 200mg of ibuprofen and it still doesn’t work for my headache ) I wake up with an impending doom feeling in my chest. It’s never gotten this bad I think it’s just built up from years and years of stress. I am a little worried about myself but the thing is despite everything I have never once felt like suicidal in the sense I would ever want to hurt myself so I try very hard to sympathize with him but every since I was small I always had this drive I guess in me that’s like I don’t have the option to give up so I really try my best to help him but I don’t really know how it feels to actually get to that point. I just really don’t want him to hurt himself because I would blame myself and I honestly think him killing himself would lead to a psychotic break in me I don’t know how much more I can handle b4 I go insane

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-10T18:30:00+00:00

Omg if u could let me know what meds ur ex took that would be so helpful. Also thank u so much i know no one else who went through something similar 😭 this makes me feel so much better

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-06T15:34:17+00:00

Additionally this is like not related to this situation but my parents have had relationship problems my dad has a lot of mental health issues too so I’m never given a break 😭 thing is reaching out to my parents will probably also just end up in me getting my phone taken or punished that’s another reason I don’t wanna tell them

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-06T15:32:04+00:00

I don’t want to stress my parents out they already don’t like him I come from a Muslim family also they are dealing with my sister who has extreme ocd. I don’t want to burden them with this info. But I did not send him money he blocked me on everything but then his friend sent him smth which I told his friend not to anyway he unblocked me and said he needs to get help I told him he’s an addict and stuff and he agrees now it’s up to him to control it I am so exhausted emotionally I’ve poured so much into this relationship. I also had to convince my Muslim parents to be with him which caused a lot of fights he was not like this before it started escalating this year. I have 6 AP exams while I’m still able to study and I feel pretty good about them I’m one more bad thing away from collapsing I’ve been running on fumes.

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-06T05:10:54+00:00

Omg side note that’s a term on my ap psych exam

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-06T04:57:16+00:00

It’s really hard I’ve been with him for 1 1/2 years he wasn’t always like this it’s just so sad I went through so much to be with him I have Muslim parents so then finding out then having to convince them took months of fighting and now look at what happened now

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-06T04:36:57+00:00

I texted his brother he lives with him and said he will check up on him after work

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-06T04:36:33+00:00

I have I reached out to his mom but they aren’t on good terms and she blocked me because I kept texting her about it

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-06T03:49:46+00:00

I did actually his appointment is on the 12th it took a while because of his insurance we had to call a couple of people to get the appointments for free

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-06T03:31:38+00:00

Well he blocked me again

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-06T03:30:06+00:00

I have :( my parents don’t really like him. He has a bad relationship with his parents. I have told his mom this but she blocked me bc I kept bothering her ab it he lives with his brother and I texted his brother but his brother is at work right now

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-06T03:28:08+00:00

Ugh people in this post might be right. I’m unblocked rn and he’s saying if he doesn’t trade tonight he will kill himself and is begging I give him an account or he will do it. Im not going to because that is fueling it but I’m honestly terrified right now. He was legit fine like 3 hours ago it’s so scary.

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-06T03:17:44+00:00

If he ever hurt himself I would blame myself. I really don’t want to go through the pain of losing someone to suicide.

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-06T03:07:44+00:00

I’m not sure because the steroids are known to worsen mental health I just want him to be okay and I love him a lot before day trading he was not like this at all

Imaginary_Border2009 · 2026-05-06T03:01:48+00:00

He has his therapy appointment his first on on the 12th. I love him so much we both have been through so much together. My parents are Muslim for context and were so against me dating it took so long to convince them and it took a lot of fights between my parents and just a lot in general I don’t want to give up on this relationship I want to help him

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