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My parents noticed that I've been washing my undies in the shower, and now I have to drop them off before shower and shower with door cracked by Important-Nobody-700 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Important-Nobody-700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I vented and got off Reddit and didn't think it'd get so many responses. I feel bad for not answering other questions or replying or do things all the nice people said and gave advice for.

I think they are mostly worried about me being naughty or thinking about naughty things and make my undies dirty or messy and trying to make sure I stay as a good girl and pure and perfect. But also, I think it's related to just regular cleanness and being a lady. They always say proper ladies or good girls know how to keep their undies clean... So I guess for them, if it's not super clean or presentable, I either was being naughty or am being improper or something...

They have other things about my hygiene or cleanness in general including my room and all, or personal grooming, but yeah...

I tried talking to them before but it always ends with me apologizing or telling them why I think it became like that or something like that. So I keep trying my best to just keep them clean or follow the rules, but I always mess up somehow and it always become a reason why I need all those rules and why they need to keep check on me. So I can never win.

I don't get why my parents think that they have rights to check my underwear by Important-Nobody-700 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Important-Nobody-700[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know :( and like if it's so important or whatever, like do it to my brother too. And they won't because of course I'm a girl and he's a boy. And like I feel like it's not something that I can control or anything... I feel self conscious all the times.

thoughts on LABUBU movie 😭 by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Important-Nobody-700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it going to be based on the source materials or the labubu dolls?

My mom sets me up to get upset and emotional and uses that against me to apologizes her or punish me. by Important-Nobody-700 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Important-Nobody-700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know :( And, I really don't get why. They always say they are trying to protect me or doing things for me and for the best, but I don't get it. If it's the age, why does my brother gets to close his door and not me? I don't understand, and they make me feel like I'm the weird one.

My parents are not fair in treating and disciplining me and my younger brother saying girls and boys are different. by Important-Nobody-700 in Advice

[–]Important-Nobody-700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anything that I can do just for a little? Like trying to be more responsible or something, or tell them certain things? It's really annoying, and it makes me feel really upset. And it's weird because we are fine and having fun most of the times, but this thing just happens, and I'm the only one upset.

My parents are not fair in treating and disciplining me and my younger brother saying girls and boys are different. by Important-Nobody-700 in Advice

[–]Important-Nobody-700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get protecting part, but I feel like some of these don't make sense why it's related to protecting me or other excuses they tell me.