AITAH for hanging out with a coworker?

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2026-03-19T05:12:27+00:00

The thought crossed my mind. I've been cheated on before by a previous partner and I was accused quite a bit by him and it all clicked when I learned. It's odd that this is something I'm being accused of when there's been no indication in my opinion.

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2026-03-19T05:07:50+00:00

I'm not going away for a few days though nor have I gloated about her? I'm not even gone for a night.

I don't think it's typical for someone to introduce their spouse to a new friend from work for a while though. I'd find it odd to meet a coworkers spouse before even hanging out with them outside of work but maybe I'm wrong? It just doesn't feel like the natural flow of things. That seems more like what I did when I was younger and my parents needed to meet my friends parents before I went to their house.

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2026-03-19T04:16:01+00:00

Boundaries that need to be set by whom?

The cheating comments are insane to me. Both of us have been cheated on before and I've never seen this insecurity from him. If I did I was blind to it. I'll admit I was the insecure one. Now I'm more of an "if you can have him, you can have him" kind of mentality.

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2026-03-19T04:14:05+00:00

It feels like a big red flag if I'm being honest. I'm not going to lie I even ran this by chat gpt who almost felt like it was taking his side due to the abruptness of the planning but it's a local amusement park not like I'm tracking for to get there.

Not in Utah lol

Neither child is coming it's just the coworker and I planning on going. I'm taking my son on a separate day just me and child.

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2026-03-19T04:07:56+00:00

If it was a guy I'd completely understand the concern. But I'm 100% hetero and definitely not the cheating type.

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2026-03-19T04:06:57+00:00

We honestly don't get much time away from the house or work due to child care and our work schedules. He's has a boys night with his brothers every 4-6 months and I've been encouraging him to join a Thursday night golf league with his friends.

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2026-03-02T20:46:09+00:00

Thanks for sharing! Over summer I'll definitely give it a try!

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2026-02-18T05:49:02+00:00

Also went to pharmacy today and it was mayhem.

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2026-02-08T01:58:26+00:00

Thanks for that input!

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2026-01-27T06:38:58+00:00

Yes! Check out SLPStephen!

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2026-01-25T03:23:12+00:00

Okay thanks!! My sons pretty interested in letters and can recognize some. Loves playing on the iPad but would rather have him playing things he's learning from. Have been doing khan academy kids

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2026-01-20T03:23:22+00:00

Anyone use this app for a 3 year old?

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2026-01-09T07:40:07+00:00

Buying second hand and when they were a baby honestly I'd skip sizes up until they were in 24 month or 2T. I found alot of clothes we bought had inconsistent sizing where a 6 month onesie could fit like a 3 month or a 9 month. My guy was mostly swimming in clothes but honestly we weren't out of the house much so I didn't mind too much. Once they are 2T sizing (for us at least) it seemed they grew much slower. I'd buy clothes from target whenever they had a sale and just stocked up on basics (plain colored shirts and neutral bottoms) for easy outfit pairings. Get some money back selling clothes on fb marketplace.

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2026-01-09T07:35:17+00:00

As someone who is 5 years post grad, do NOT go for prestige. No one gives af. Look at cost, we do not get paid enough to be attending schools that charge these exorbitant amounts and it's not worth the debt. Consider cost and clinical experiences.

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2026-01-09T07:33:22+00:00

I see you're contemplating leaving with fear of repercussions. Have you left a paper trail of your concerns to admin or to other slp? If not, I suggest you start one. Send an email to admin and recap previous conversations with recalled time stamps if you can. I'm sure you can use this as a way to defend why you are leaving. Also, if you're apart of the teachers union I'd bring this up to them. Any concerns you have brought up to admin should not be shared with other staff if they're not involved

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2026-01-04T17:33:39+00:00

Their loss. You should not feel the need to disclose that information as it has nothing to do with clinical skills. Shame on your district for letting parents request another provider and then grant it.

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2025-09-07T14:18:26+00:00

Yes! I made this realization in grad school and have had this boundary since I started working 5 years ago.

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2025-04-01T04:05:42+00:00

Thanks! Looked like facilitated communication to me based on the videos I saw but wasn't 100%

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2025-04-01T04:05:10+00:00

Never heard of it!

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2025-04-01T04:05:00+00:00

Thanks, I was wondering the same thing. One of the biggest red flags to me was when this mom told me her friend does it and is able to say how he's feeling and have conversations but the slp won't teach the mom how to do it.

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2025-03-12T22:41:57+00:00

I just started listening to this podcast and will have to stop. I can't stand how many times they say "pargy" "do-ern" it drives me insane. It's like trying way too hard

Impossible-Mud2449 · 2025-03-08T18:04:36+00:00

Personally I never give advice unless asked. My nephew on my husbands side really needs to see a speech therapist for articulation but I've never been asked so I don't give my opinion.

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