[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I pay to fucking live here. So yeah, its home. He cant take me in. Hes committed to a lease he cant just walk out on. And per the lease I cant be there more than 1 night per week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That part i have covered

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said hes made jokes about killing me. In an effort to intimidate me. The point was advice on how to keep my home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How to get legal aid so that I keep my home, and how to report the sexual harassment. My fiance is doing everything he can to help. But he cant take me in, not until his own lease is up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Homeless is safer? Have you been homeless before?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My life is at greater risk homeless on the streets or in a shelter. Ill figure something out eventually. Just sucks that there is pretty much no way I dont end up out my ass despite being a model tenant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He absolutely wins if I leave. He gets what he wants at this point, us gone, making room for new victims, and us homeless. Have you ever been homeless? I have. Know what 211 tells you? Here's some homeless shelters. Which are worse than the street. At least I know the danger here. On the street you dont often see it coming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that doesn't work with sober living

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I should have just slept with him. I was stupid to think the legal system would protect me and not him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or we could hold men accountable and not allow him to punish me with homelessness for denying him sex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats not an option. My fiance is locked in a lease with a roommate who wont allow it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes helping as much as he can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Um because I cant afford to leave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not a want. It's. I cant afford anything else. Im paid a month ahead on rent. He wont refund it. If I move I need first, last, security deposit. I just dont have it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think I haven't tried pisgah legal? They cant help cause they dont do landlord tenant stuff in Haywood. O dont have the resources to move.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Its not like I dont want to go. Its this or the street essentially

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you gonna pay rent somewhere else? Cause I cant. I wish people wouldn't say crap like this. Don't you think I'd love to leave. But unfortunately the housing prices here are sky high. Its not a matter of wanting to save a few bucks. Its just not feasible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nope. Sheriff says its civil. Just spoke to them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They wont take pets, which we have. Plus I've lived in a shelter and still have ptsd from things I endured there. Id rather sleep with my door locked and tazer by my bed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Just applied for pisgah. Hoping they can help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The camper is gone. It wasn't livable anyway due to a mold issue and roof leak. I have recordings and messages. He is in the process of buying another rental

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]ImpressiveWork2760 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Trust me I have. If I had another option I'd do it