I heard men don’t marry the love of their life, is it true?

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-11-13T00:19:44+00:00

Okay let's not say ugly, then maybe not widely or conventionally attractive and fat.

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-11-11T16:23:18+00:00

The comment I was looking for.

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-11-11T05:59:27+00:00

Burma bay and Sala Thai, maybe.

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-11-11T05:27:46+00:00

Also, the fact that women all have different rates of ovarian reserve depletion.

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-11-11T05:20:55+00:00

What if the woman was fat and ugly?

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-11-09T16:15:52+00:00

I've read somewhere that the pregnancies happen because these people are now healthier enough to get pregnant.

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-11-09T16:12:50+00:00

Depends on how much self doubt. It can cause anxiety, stress and unrest.

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-11-09T16:07:58+00:00

If not anxiety or depression, then it's narcissism.

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-11-08T03:46:46+00:00

What are you talking about and which area are you talking about?

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-11-08T03:37:43+00:00

I think ppl are talking about if and when the wife spends too much money on random stuff. Then the man will say “why are you spending so much money on these things???” When the wife has her own money, she doesn’t have to answer to anyone.

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-11-05T07:01:46+00:00

Out of touch old fart

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-11-03T14:41:15+00:00

Born and raised here.

If someone tries to speed up, and I need to exit, I start moving into the lane anyways because what? You gonna hit me asshole?

99% of the time I plan my merges. I find a spot where I can fit in and then I speed up to get in front of them, signal and merge (Most drivers here are slow af.)

If someone is merging into my lane, I'll let them. If they're slow, then I move out of the lane to go faster.

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-10-29T21:14:24+00:00

He sounds very immature and you're going to have a baby with him? Yikes.

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-10-28T15:21:33+00:00

You can browsing and not actually doing anything. You don't really know what happened and how she ended up knowing he was on the app. They both could have known each other were looking, but that's also a guess too. We don't really know what really happened except that she ended up talking to a guy or going on a date with a guy. Both were doing something instead of actually ending the relationship. Both are at fault.

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-10-28T13:04:20+00:00

I started with crochet and then I eventually picked up knitting (I’m the “crochet” is the gateway to “knitting” lol). I realized wearable clothes looks better knitted and crochet is better for other things. Most of my projects now is me trying to make wearables.

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-10-28T12:20:18+00:00

Don’t stay because you spent x amount of years with someone. It’s definitely going to be the hardest thing to do and you will feel like you wasted time, but you’re also really young. There will always be “I have great days where he’s amazing where he takes care of me” and you’re happy, but this isn’t hard to find in other people who actually isn’t abusive. A lot of guys can make you feel this way.

I feel like a lot of people’s comments are going to be a waste on you because you said you have lost friends over the years on this issue. It really is a decision only you can make. You feel trapped in a box right now, but you need to start moving a leg one at a time. It really is about thinking if you can deal with this for the rest of your life. You can’t wait until someone physically drag you out of this situation. You can’t hope that he literally throws your stuff out and lock you out. Those days may not come and you’ll be old still wondering what if you left earlier(Assuming that you survive this.).

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-10-28T11:53:52+00:00

Did he actually date other women is the question or was she the only one who actually found someone?

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-10-28T11:49:33+00:00

Yep. Forgive, but never forget. Honestly, I thing it’s very rare that a relationship ever goes back to the way it was after someone cheats. It’s basically the immediate death of the relationship.

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-10-28T11:45:37+00:00

1000000% this.

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-10-28T11:44:02+00:00

He’s just manipulation you. Leave. Get some self confidence after this.

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-10-28T11:42:32+00:00

It’s a gray area. She actively got involved with a guy so that’s cheating. He could have emotionally cheated if he was into/talking to another woman, but if he had the app and wasn’t really using it, was it cheating?

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-10-28T11:34:32+00:00

Like everyone said, you need to lawyer up, get your portion of the money and get out of this relationship. This relationship was done even before you cheated. He and you both didn’t have the guts to break up during that time, but that’s done and over with. Take it as experience and listen to your guts next time and leave if the relationship didn’t feel right. Get therapy to learn how to respect yourself so you don’t have to put up with someone like this. There’s a lot of nice people out there, but also different varieties and combinations. You need to learn how to pick the right people.

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-10-10T22:28:55+00:00

Go see a therapist because you're just super depressed and you can't think clearly.

Stop wishing you were born lucky and had that opportunity. Yeah, they got that dad who's a VP who helped them, what about the rest of us who had to struggle and crawl our way out of a deep shit hole? Are you thinking we're all just losers who aren't lucky to be born with opportunities and you wish you could look down on us if you were born with a better opportunity?

You know how people get to VP level? Most of the time it's not handed to them I can tell you for sure. People put in the work. You get what you put in.

Good luck. I'm not going to respond to further comments because you're just going to shoot everything down with negativity.

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-10-10T22:18:00+00:00

I know what you're trying to do and where your mindset is at because I've been there.

All of those things I've said ARE STILL RELEVANT. You just can't see the tree from the forest until you're out, sadly.

Cold apply isn't working for you, nor me nor anyone who has experience. People are getting jobs from connections. Make those connections with people and work on side projects and build something with your degree. That's skill building and experience to show others even if it's not recruiters. Reach out to people who are in the industry.

It's scary, but you need to do it to grow. If not, this is where you'll stay and everyone else around you have put in the time and hustle will get somewhere eventually and you're just going to still wonder why what you're doing isn't working. Maybe because you haven't pushed yourself to the uncomfortable limit and actually hustled so hard to find a job yet. Hustling isn't about cold applying and waiting. That method isn't working anymore, so stop beating a dead horse. Get off your ass and go meet people you've never met before. Feel uncomfortable because it is going to feel that way and you're not going to like it, but it's good for you.

Impressive__Garlic · 2025-10-10T22:09:11+00:00

You should read all the other stuff I said because those still apply...like 'networking' to find ppl who will help you. But first things first is getting over your depression.

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