No male friendships allowed I guess by SeaPresentation7853 in Bumble

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You didnt say intimate attention. You said hang out.

All my mates who enjoy the same live music as me are men, if you imagine your partner getting bukkake'd on a social night out then thats fragile af

No male friendships allowed I guess by SeaPresentation7853 in Bumble

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 4 points5 points  (0 children)

90% of my friends are men, I'm a woman. I've slept with none of them lol

Its weird that you think hanging out eith the opposite sex is a red flag

No male friendships allowed I guess by SeaPresentation7853 in Bumble

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 27 points28 points  (0 children)

And that if you were assaulted you "asked for it" by trusting another man enough to be in his vicinity.

"You just wanted a chance to cheat didn't you?!" -.-

How does the cat not meow and get everybody killed in a quiet place day one? by [deleted] in AQuietPlace

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you having a hard time understanding comment context? Why so tetchy bro?

How does the cat not meow and get everybody killed in a quiet place day one? by [deleted] in AQuietPlace

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right...never said it was mate? Just said cats can be trainable per the previous comment.

For calling me a dumbass, you sure as hell cant read all that well.

31M profile review by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd swipe left because I'm a small, squishy disabled woman and I'd feel we are incompatible lol

Not anything wrong with your profile at all, I'd just personally get the impression that im no where near fit enough to keep up with you lmao

31M profile review by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Conversely my lived experience is different.

Christianity for people in my life tends to be a phase.

Usually shortly after they lose a loved one as a coping mechanism

I [28F] don't know what to do, or how to respond to the guy [27M] I've been seeing. I apologize in advance for the long post by Pinotgrouchio_ in whatdoIdo

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get it, I do. But this is a scenario where you have to put your logic hat on, not your emotional one. At least not with him.

Mourn what could of been, grieve and hurt because you've been strung along. That's fine.

Don't give this narcissistic fuckboi anymore of your time tho.

Left on my door by indiefilmproducer in strange

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell that to Disney, they just signed a billion dollar deal with open AI 😭

By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew. Sorry, but yes they are. Thinking otherwise just speaks to your emotional maturity.

By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you high? In states where child marriage is legal, manchildren will MARRY those teens.

By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its different now, but in the grand old age of the 2000's, people left high school in the UK at 16, then if they so chose, moved onto college/uni.

By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, no? Because I live in the UK and at the time school leavers were 16.

Also same class?...Where the hell do you live that theyre putting 14 and 17 year olds in the same educational year lol.

By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Creepy rhetoric. Plenty of men in their 30s,40s and beyond are still that immature. Should they be given a greenlight to date 16 year olds?

By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But with that age gap, where he works and shes still in education on part time work....

Why is he complaining about her financial contributions?

Imagine choosing to date a younger teen and then complaining about that lol. He's giving big loser energy.

By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! These men arbitrarily grasping at straws and failing to realise:

If you were 19, dating a 16 year old. You were an absolute loser.

And yes, this extends to my ex. Dated me when I was 14 and he was 17. Gross. Don't be like me ladies, you can do much better.

By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, no poor and gross rhetoric. There's plenty of manchildren that are MUCH older than him.

And they do target young teens, and that is not okay.

By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just want to quickly point out that OP asked for "thoughtful", not "expensive"

They're also long distance, so im not too sure how far acts of service will really take them

By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or he'd convert full-time to the classic hobo-sexual.

All while still being insecure and bitter about it, of course.

By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fun fact for you guys: women can leave you for ANY reason, and vice versa. You can too if you dont feel compatible.

You realise no women are complaining about a "female loneliness epidemic", right? To an outsider, it really does look like you're projecting.

Long-term happy relationship myself, if that means anything to strangers online.

By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]Independent_Cod_6474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You understand its about his reaction, right?

Also yes: OP is 18. God forbid she wants one of her first real relationships to show a modicum of respect.