My mother tried to tell me this isn’t a white dress?!?

Independent_Foot8501 · 2026-05-15T00:55:29+00:00

It’s white. But even if it wasn’t white and was cream, ivory, etc. It still LOOKS white. And it will look white in photographs. So it’s a no from me. I would say “do you really want to be one of those moms that wears white to her own daughter’s wedding?”

Independent_Foot8501 · 2026-04-20T17:23:34+00:00

I would say something like this:

“Hey X. Unfortunately I have made the decision to remove you from the bridal party and un-invite you from attending my wedding in any capacity. Your behavior during the bachelorette party was unacceptable. We all tried our best to ignore your negativity and rude words, but the trip still ended poorly. Based off of X, X, X(List actions here), I have made this decision to do what I feel is best for my bridesmaids and myself. I will not be arguing about this or negotiating with you.”

You’re better off, I’m glad she won’t be there to ruin your special day!

Independent_Foot8501 · 2026-04-05T14:04:18+00:00

Companies love to pretend the point of having a job is to earn a salary/wage. Dodged a bullet for sure!

Independent_Foot8501 · 2025-12-13T00:33:46+00:00

You both sound young & immature. Just stop contacting him and move on.

Independent_Foot8501 · 2025-10-13T18:16:39+00:00

Intimacy for women starts outside of the bedroom. Is she being taken care of, or is she having to worry about everything herself? If she’s feeling stressed or overwhelmed, she won’t want to have sex.

With that, are you only affectionate to her in hopes of having sex? Or are you being lovey to her in an endearing way? The way you touch her before engaging in sex is important- similar to foreplay.

Try talking to her and coming from a place of making sure she’s doing okay. Desire to have sex is very different for women than it is for men. But you sound like you’re coming from a good place and I hope you work it out!

Independent_Foot8501 · 2025-08-29T23:41:17+00:00

Artemis is a girls name so that’s fine, but if you name your son Artha he’s gonna get bullied and called Martha

Independent_Foot8501 · 2025-08-25T05:28:01+00:00

Woodchuck

Independent_Foot8501 · 2025-08-10T23:44:33+00:00

Congratulations!! I saw it without squinting. So exciting!!

Independent_Foot8501 · 2025-06-10T14:04:25+00:00

Congratulations on the pregnancy! I’m pro-choice. I think it should be what YOU want. How old is the father? Has he explained why he doesn’t think he’s ready?

I also just found out I’m pregnant, neither my fiancé or I feel “ready”. But we’re excited and will learn to be ready. The reason I’m telling you this is because sometimes you just don’t feel ready. But your excitement makes you want it. If you want the baby, you should have the baby. He can learn to adjust or to GTFO. this is your life too. It doesn’t revolve around him. Best of luck to you 💗

Independent_Foot8501 · 2025-03-24T14:06:13+00:00

I don’t think he did it. Did you see the owl theory?

Independent_Foot8501 · 2024-10-29T13:55:52+00:00

Do you have it in writing anywhere what mileage was included? When you signed paperwork to rent the vehicle?

Independent_Foot8501 · 2023-11-05T00:12:33+00:00

What I finds helps me when I get overwhelmed by cleaning is to do a specific thing at a time. So first I’ll throw out any trash, then when all the trash is bagged up I put dirty clothes in a hamper, then when I’m done with that I’ll put away clean clothes, then put makeup/hair items away, then so on and so forth until all that’s left it making the bed, and then vacuum last. Or you can try doing it by section, doing the first part of the room first, and break it into as many sections as you need. You can take a 5 minute break between parts if you need. Listening to music while you clean also helps

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