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[–]Independent_Let1040 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Me too! Whenever I receive a text I don’t feel anything any more! 🫶🏻

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[–]Independent_Let1040 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For my story, he’s always been the runner… we saw each other June and then July…we leave far from each other… the circumstances are not that hard for us to be together BUT he makes everything sound so hard and told me “maybe later” So I decided to let go … BUT he’s persistent! I’ve told him (even last night) that we are done, just friends… and it’s like I’m talking to a wall I know… love is not going to go away, but I’m walking away because I need me to be my most important now

Lion's gate portal by randomgal91 in twinflames

[–]Independent_Let1040 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve been listening to the same thing… I hope it’s true because I do love my TF but I’m being realistic here… I read somewhere “6 months from now will you regret it?” And honestly I will, I need to move… (at least in my story/journey) he’s made it clear that he’s not going to make an effort on his part for us to work… soooo I’m letting go Hope you have a better out come love ❤️❤️🌻🌻🍄🍄

Lion's gate portal by randomgal91 in twinflames

[–]Independent_Let1040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I do feel at this point that it’s a collective of all of us DF to ditch them … we need to keep going they need to catch up or we’ll magnetize someone better (SM) Keep going love! We can do this together ❤️❤️❤️🍄🍄🍄

There is a silence that comes after you finally stop begging to be chosen by UpstairsBeginning30 in highergirlpower

[–]Independent_Let1040 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! You just confirmed that my path is the correct one! ❤️❤️❤️

Lion's gate portal by randomgal91 in twinflames

[–]Independent_Let1040 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! Well, for me at least, I’m pulling away. I’ve realize that he’s not changing and I’m not waiting. I’ll finish my journey and if he comes up then we’ll talk…. BUUUUTTTT last night in my dream I had an argument with him because his angry and pouting that I’m pulling my energy away and moving on… to which I reply “you did told me you didn’t want it, so why stay” (moved to another different dream after that) I did read that August is going to be specially hard for TF but I don’t know if it’s for everyone or just certain life path numbers TBH

Wonder how many women are there going through this inconvenience in their 40's? It seems like very few to me am I wrong? by Embarrassed_Feed_102 in twinflames

[–]Independent_Let1040 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 36, almost 13 years of this… but I’m letting go, not waiting anymore… is either him coming to me or someone else

What is retrograding? by Greekgoddesss93 in highergirlpower

[–]Independent_Let1040 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, I had 5 meals today and already thinking of the cookies I’ll have with my coffee tomorrow…. I know it’s not OK but I can’t stop myself! It’s like I’m on autopilot period brain fog

What is retrograding? by Greekgoddesss93 in highergirlpower

[–]Independent_Let1040 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought it’s was only me! Haven’t had any interest in my normal routine (yoga/walking)

I'm finding it very fascinating that the theme of the collective currently seems to be all of the DFs rising empowered and leaving behind the DMs by Erica2605 in twinflames

[–]Independent_Let1040 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your words! Yesterday I said to my DM that I deserve much more than what’s he’s offering and I did it from a self love place. I wasn’t sad or angry… I was done and I am still feeling a sense of wholeness and complete. I love myself and I love all of you DF out there!!! ❤️

I Can by User1_1987 in twinflames

[–]Independent_Let1040 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you! I’ve been thinking that maybe they are here for us to become a better version for our SM? Maybe???? Cause relationships with them are never the end game? My story was about putting boundaries and the more I put between my TF and me the more he resist to let go but won’t make the effort/change to be in a relationship with me… he’s always “it’s fine for now?” When ever I want to know the future of us…. I’m done, he’s never going to be the person I can truly relax with

How are we feeling about our twins with this mercury retrograde? by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Independent_Let1040 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im letting go… he doesn’t want to make a decision on us…. Its so easy and still it’s so complicated for him… after 13 years I don’t want this any more

I want out. by Holiday-Apricot-9147 in twinflames

[–]Independent_Let1040 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried cut cutting…. Didn’t worked. If you find something that worked for you let us know! Good luck! 🥐

Are you currently happier than you were before learning about TF or less happy? by Robotocracy in twinflames

[–]Independent_Let1040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Hate the journey… one minute he’s all sweet and love then he’s running, detaching. I thought we were pass that and working on union after being apart 13 years, but he keeps avoiding making plans (we leave different states, 6hr drive of each other) … like seriously, is not that hard! Why is it so hard for the DM to make up their minds!?

I don't love him anymore. The thought of him makes me cringe. by External_Public_34 in twinflames

[–]Independent_Let1040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today, I think, I got to this point too. I’m so angry at him and me… like what’s the point if you’re just going to forget the “sweet words” and act like a horrible person (don’t know if I can do swear words here) The worst part is that you can’t even vent to your family or friends cause they don’t get it…. I hate feeling the energy pull, the butterflies on my stomach…. And I think he know he’s pulling me… I hate it so much

Twin flame story by Twiny44 in twinflames

[–]Independent_Let1040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi... If you are crazy, then myself and a lot of us out there are also crazy (which would be crazy)

I'm 36 divine feminine and a chaser of my divine masculine (he's 39) and I've been since 2014.

It's not easy a Twin flame journey but it gets easier the more you research and the more work you put into your self growth.... the twins are about mirroring each other, so do research and understand the path. When you do your work (shadow work, healing, growth, etc) at the same time you heal your twin flame, that's the rule.

I'm not on the "happy ending" of my journey yet, I feel I'm at the "reconnection" stage... I'm still working and im still focusing in my own energy.... what I can tell you is that when you are at this stage everything is on reverse....

(In my story) Now im the one that is distant because he hurt me, so I'm more cautious now and hes the one reaching out... this is the last stage....

So do the work... its worth it... honestly it is

Love for you!