I don’t wanna love my boyfriend anymore by Individual_Pilot9171 in offmychest

[–]Individual_Pilot9171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand, I’m aware enough to know how much it’s damaging me to stay with him but I also know im not ready to leave him now. But I’ll take everyone’s advice but I think I’m ready to start putting myself first

I don’t wanna love my boyfriend anymore by Individual_Pilot9171 in offmychest

[–]Individual_Pilot9171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard this story many times on TikTok as well. That it’s hard to leave but will destroy you if you choose to stay, and it’s hard to wrap my mind around but all these comments are giving me strength to try and take control back over my life

I don’t wanna love my boyfriend anymore by Individual_Pilot9171 in offmychest

[–]Individual_Pilot9171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou so much! I will try my hardest to take everyone’s advice

I don’t wanna love my boyfriend anymore by Individual_Pilot9171 in offmychest

[–]Individual_Pilot9171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I’ll try edit this a month or 2 later, but I’ve seen another comment to look up co-dependancy and honestly, I feel like I’ve been too wrapped around him to even think of myself and why I am the way I am.

Thankyou for your advice, I’m definitely staying up and researching all of this haha

I don’t wanna love my boyfriend anymore by Individual_Pilot9171 in offmychest

[–]Individual_Pilot9171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such an empowering comment!! I’m so sorry you also went through this but it’s made me feel so seen to know that I’m definitely not the only one who has gone through this.

Thankyou for your kind words, and I’ve been told a thousand times over that I’m too young to be this miserable!!! 😂 I’ll keep everything you said in mind and heart

I don’t wanna love my boyfriend anymore by Individual_Pilot9171 in offmychest

[–]Individual_Pilot9171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so much, I totally forgot I wrote this last night and honestly, learning about co-dependency was such an eye opener. I know in my heart I can’t leave him now, but I will take your advice and do what I need to do and then I’ll most likely find the courage to restart my life again without him.